I never met my husbands children and being that they are 23 and 21 and live with their mother it is difficult to understand that there is resentment to me. My husband and I married 12 years ago and from that time he told me he isnt a good dad, never been there for the kids and always felt guilty. (he was incarcerated for about 6 years) I met him years before him and I got together and while he was married to this lady. We only had an affair for a few months and then the next year left his wife for another lady who past away in 1992. He only kept in contact with them here and there and saw them only a few times while he was away. Last year his daugther out of the blue emails me a horrible email which she got from my space which my sister just did for me a few years back. She wrote this is the daugther of the man you claim to be married to and all these names and her brother wrote me also saying Your an outsider, fall back *****. The exwife wrote an email saying you will never get through him to our kids. When my husband read these emails he contacted them and told them why are you taking your resentment out on her which is really directed for me. He said my wife took care of me through all these years, it didnt work out with your mom and I, she didnt try hard enough... (I was kind of insulted when I heard that) but they were insulted also. This lady never moved on and I think she held on and the kids that he would eventually go back to them. In fact, she never told them their father remarried and she never told them they have a 1/2 sister in florida (which is from the lady that past) ...
They told him they dont want to meet me and he said he isnt going to lead a double life.
Should a 23 year old and 21 year old act this way?
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