Can i ask a few questions please?

Question

where are you from?

whats your starsign?(i am interested in horoscopes)

whats your name(if you have a nickname only)?

what is your fave holiday destination?

also,this probably wont come to anything but i also like to be prepared.

so the night before i was with my girlfriend(see previous questions)anyway she told me she was a guy.we are going to be meeting for lunch today to talk about stuff.we never had s*x because i wanted it to be on her terms,ya know its a gentleman thing to do?as i may have said i tried to call,email etc all day yesterday,i was worried sick but i dont need to be now.

its possible noone else has gone through this so i dont know what answers to expect,but what if she stays as she is,i mean she is the same person but i wont be able to father children with her and i have lasted a year without s*x but would it cause problems for us if i wanted it and she did not want to actually be a woman?she makes a very good woman,i was fooled as you can see(well you cant but anyway).

you dont have to answer the first 4 questions just the 5th one will do.

Answer 1

Hey you want to steal my identity and drain my bank account, so if you don't mind I'll keep my details secret.

Answer 2

1. Glasgow, Scotland

2. Virgo

3. Mike

4. Brighton

5. You've been going out with this person for a year, and while she's just hit you with a bombshell, think for a minute - she's still the same person she was before she told you her news. Are you in love with the person, or the external appearance? You should sit and talk the situation over with someone to whom you've been close for 12 months. The news should not change your basic feelings however. Depending on how your discussions turn out, you may have to look for a new GIRL friend, but you should not be losing a friend.

Answer 3

1. Oregon

2. Cancer

3.SLADE

4. Kokomo

as for five.....well....are you a straight guy? maybe bi? or g*y?....if you are one of the latter, then i suggest stay with him/her.....it could be a whole new expierience in bed that you could have alot of fun with...plus he/she is still the same person youve alway known....so it could still work out......

Answer 4

Newport, Wales

Libra

Benjamin Derek James Teague, or Teaguey

Cyprus

Ben

Answer 5

Seriously, just talk it out like two people who care about each other. You might not continue toward something romantic, but your opposite is still somone you care about.

The other thing: In today's world  there are lots of variations. It is the person inside each of you that really matters. If you can be supportive and not too hung up on whatever the biological s*x is, then you can adapt to have a good romantic relationship with each other. It is not something anyone has the right to tell you what to do.  

Yes, I won't respond to the previous posts.  

Answer 6

Canada

Scorpio

Ashley

anywhere cold :D or the beach at night.

Dude if you attracted to her looks and personality.then go for it.. :)

But,I have to ask,are you open to dating a trans-woman,and if so is she pre op. or post op.?

...and hey there are a lot of kids in foster homes that live in S****y conditions that would want a loving family to take them in.

Answer 7

San Francisco, CA

Gemini

Ryan

Hawaii or anywhere tropical.  

Answer 8

I am from Hatfield.. I am a Gemini (and an aquarius), my Name is Imogen and I love going to Spain.

I think, if you love this person, you should commit to her. You can't have children, well some people just can't I'm afraid. The closest you get to marriage is civil union, but hey... Do you LOVE her ?  If you love her, be with her. She is a just person, she is just a girl, and a girl by choice is just every bit as valid as a girl by birth.

Have a great life together, and keep smiling.

Answer 9

Here, There, Around USA.

Scorpio.

I go by Keli.

California. LA.

If i was you I would be a bit upset that she didn't tell me that in the first place. But anyway, of course she is the same person. If you are confortable with what she has in ther pants then good for you.

Just talk to her okay? ok. Good luck. =P

Answer 10

I can try to understand what you're asking, but you're are very vague.

First off, is your "gf" a cross-dresser or transgender? You sure didn't state, that, or I didn't see.

Anyway, do ask yourself if you love him/her enough to not care about genders. The fact that your "gf" is honest might hint that he/she is serious about your relationship. Discuss with her about her future plans in regards to her gender and do touch on the topic of both of your future. If you decide to accept her the way she is, you're passing the ball into her court. What is she thinking after telling you the truth?

About the topic of fathering a child, yes, it is quite impossible, unless you choose other scientific ways of obtaining a child. However, is adoption really out of the question? Sleep on that.

It's not like you're not going to have s*x for the rest of your life. I think you're not okay with the idea of s*x with a man? That goes back to the first question of whether to accept her. There should always be compromises made here and there, that is if both of you continue to be together and stick through it.

P.S. I know my answer are very messy. I hope that it did answer your questions. After all, I was trying to guess at what you trying to ask. Best of luck to you.

Answer 11

England

leo

kerry

cornwall.

hey what the heck if you like the person go for it doesnt matter what she is,what she isn't...simple.

Answer 12

What are you rambling on about ??  

Answer 13

1. Brazil

2. Capricorn

3. Bre

4. My hometown of course

5. I'm not a L*****n so I can't really relate.  But I say dump her.

Answer 14

africa( uganda) / german

virgo

tisha / leti/ trick<--lmao

i like brazil

oh and the 5 u should just think about if u wanna spen the rest of ur life with her on congrats on going for a year without s*x i couldn't have done it

Answer 15

I'm from Russia, but currently living in Canada

I'm Aqurious

Casey Tacey

Anywhere where is sun and warmth.

But I don't understand how can these question attached to your problem with your trans gender girlfriend. Like you should have continue dating her even though she's ain't a woman. She could be your best friend.

Answer 16

-I'm from Bangladesh.

-I'm a Sagittarius

-The name is Dan.

-Favorite Holiday Destination would be "My Home" lol.

About your 5th question.

It depends how you feel about him/her.

Firstly, does he say that he is a woman? I mean is he a transsexual, or just a cross dressing g*y guy?

Well, whatever he/she may be, it really depends on what you want to do.

Do you love him/her?

Do you think it will be appropriate to have s*x with him/her?

If yes, then go for it....if you want to marry him/her, go for it too.

But if you really want to marry a real woman to have children, then he/she might not be right for you...just explain it to him/her and move on.

However, you can still have children by the means of surrogacy or Adoption!

*Best Wishes*

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