Can i ask for some simple advise?

Question

I recently broke up with my girlfriend....she was a s**t

And i have two good friends that are girls, and they both have asked me out.

And i'm not quite sure which one to pick...i don't want to put either one down, but their both very nice girls!

Ones named Emily and the other Amanda.

What do you think i should do?

Answer 1

Well, geez, that's hard.  The best way for you do is to spend each girl at different times.  You want to look for a girlfriend who is honest, trustworthy, loyal, smart, sense of humour and someone that you want to spend for the rest of your life.  Hope that I can help you.

Answer 2

If they are both good friends, then you shouldn't "go out" with either of them right away - you don't want them to be a rebound girl and ruin a good friendship.

Spend time with each of them, doing "friend" things and see if there are any sparks; then you'll know if you want to date one of them.

Answer 3

First important thing: BE HONEST.

Tell them both that you just broke up with your GF (they know that) and don't want to rush and "rebound" into another relationship.  Instead you just want to have some casual fun "with a few people" until you're over your past relationship.  

Tell them as long as they realize you going out with them isn't "exclusive" and you will also be going out with other people, you'll do it.

If they are "good friends" with you, be careful.  I've often seen good friendships between a boy and a girl end when they tried to move it into the more-than-just-friends arena.

Answer 4

if they`re best friends with each other then neither if you were a good friend to them you wouldn`t want them to stop being friends.Frankly,I suggest you find another girl.You seem like a nice guy it wouldn`t be hard. Plus,If you choose one girl over the other your relationship with them may be different.I think you shouldn`t go out with friends because if it doesn`t work your relationship will be ruined.Take it from me.    

Answer 5

well... are you actually really into one of them?? because you describe them as if they are more your friends than girls ur interested in dating.  which one can you see yourself with?? kissing n holding hands n stuff?? if you really cant see either, or you can sorta see both, then maybe you should try to find someone new instead

Answer 6

i agree ... spend some quality with emily and amanda at different times and wait a while...the name should soon pop into ur head!

good luck x