Can i ask her how good i was?

Question

A girl who was just a friend and me tried it just once to see if it would work, we both agreed that it didn't, just never quite felt right, still best of mates now and we generally talk about our personal lives with each other freely.

Do you think that it would be alright if i asked her if i was any good? (Only been with 3/4 girls) Would i get an honest answer?

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I'm male btw

Answer 1

I dont think you should ask because i dont think you will get an honest answer. She may not want to hurt your feelings. Anyway, It doesnt matter if you were no good!! Practice makes perfect!!!!

Answer 2

Don't ask her, that would be a bit awkward.

Plus, you're her friend, she'd say yes.  

Answer 3

I wouldnt bother saying anything if i was u. If you are good mates and u ask her questions about that, she may think that u want to get back with her and make the situation awkward.

If your talking about general relationships one day, then slip it in, if not, leave it.

Answer 4

sure you can.... if you guys are close friends it would be an ok thing to ask.

Answer 5

I would say that you wouldnt get an honest answer. I had a b/f that couldnt "get it up" and as far as I was concerend, "it was alllllright! No probelm...." NOT! (I fixed it..)

Anyway, you can ask, and ask for an honest answer in order to "make it perfect for her" say that.

Say lets try once more, and I'll make it perfect? Or just ask her as a mate, if you guys both dont wanna do it again.

Answer 6

shes not guna giv u a honest answer ur friends she prob wouldnt wan2 hurt your feelings x

Answer 7

sure. you can ask. no promise of honesty, though.

Answer 8

If it didn't work out for either of you, I don't think you'll get a good response. After all, it didn't work right?

Different chemistry works for different people - just that one person didn't think it was good, doesn't mean another wont.  

Answer 9

you wont get an honest answer

1-you were/are mates, she will tell you you were good anyway

2-she was probably feeling weird with it at the time

it obviously didnt rock her world or she would be back for more, but perhaps she just loves you as a friend and doesnt wanna loose that

Answer 10

you might come across and being either egotistical or insecure. or both.