Can i be in love with a married woman or is not the will of god?

Question

i reallt love this person but i am scared and confused??she has the same feelings.and freighren?i am single should i follow my heart or leave her be.????

Answer 1

it cannot be the "will of God" as adultry is a sin and the bible says "God hates sin"

Stay away till she is either divorced or leave her for good if she trys to work things out. Dont be a party to pain and emotional hurt.

Answer 2

I think you should stay away from her. Remember what the good book says about coveting another man's wife. Your feelings for her will diminish.

Take care...

Answer 3

  I assume that you hope somebody will give you some magic answer that will make it OK for you to begin dating a married woman.  Sorry, but I'm unaware of any religion that considers it OK to date married people.

Answer 4

sometimes we can't follow the heart,especially if it will hurt someone else.the will of god is certainly not to pursue someone who is married.cut all ties with her, its so wrong to steal something that belongs to someone else.will bring u nothing but heartache.

Answer 5

What goes up must come down,what goes around comes around.Leave her alone and find a single women.I been cheated on and its the worst feeling in the world.Dont help in causing someone elses grief.

Answer 6

Dude love has no boundaries....you can love any one.....but you sure you both will be able to handle this relationship.....its a commitment & she is already committed....think about all this first then jump on to a conclusion.  

Answer 7

Leave her be.  Adultery is NEVER the will of God.

Answer 8

going after someone in a relationship probably isn't the best idea. think of it this way: if she is willing to cheat on the person she is with to be with you, what is to stop her from doing the same with someone else when she is with you?

Answer 9

Check in with her marriage vows!   Ask god about god's will!

Answer 10

it's possible that you are in love with her, but as far as religion goes...it's a sin.

Answer 11

i think you have to leave her but its not very wrong to love her because your heart need her

Answer 12

We normally want things we cannot have. Thats probably your natural urges, but SHE should know better than to cheat on her husband, even if only allowing deceit into her heart.  You must realize deep down that this 'love' you feel is the work of evil festering in your heart. Do not accept that!  Would you go to a store and steal?  If someone makes you angry, would you kill them? I'm sorry if this is sounds terribly drastic, and I hope this kind of behavior NEVER entertains you, but wrong is WRONG sir. Listen to that little voice in your head...now, that voice may be God, I don't quite know how He works, but I don't want to test Him. I want to continue to earn my Blessings by being the best I can be...don't you? Best of luck with your decision.