Can i call the father and demad answers????

Question

I am 24 weeks pregnant. I am 23 the father is 26.

I really am confused more than ever about what he wants. Everytime i talk to him he never really gives me a straight answer, Just that he isnt ready to be a father but he wants to be in the bbays life, he just gives me mixed answers and i want toknow what is going on with him., He has known about this since i was 4 weeks along,

Anyway my question is .....DO I have the right to call him and demand straight answer one way or the other from him.?????

I need to know what he is prepared to do about all this so i can decide what i am doing .

Answer 1

At this point the need to be "nice" doesn't really exist. If you need answers, demand answers. Just be prepared they may not be the ones you want to hear. Men have a hard time connecting with an unborn child, so he might come around after the baby is born.

Answer 2

It sounds like he is confused.  I would say if he is offering to be a part of the child's life, you should let him be involved as much as he can.  He may be having a hard time coming to terms with being a dad, especially if you two weren't serious.  Give him some time.  And in the future, perhaps be more careful with your choices so that you don't get stuck in this situation again.  

Answer 3

i'm in the same situation except my now ex didn't even believe he was the father but i just got the dna test and he was proved to be the father.  my daughter is preemie needs all this extra stuff not home from hospital yet and her father has only seen he twice. you need to get answers before your child is born i wish i had gotten this straightened out w. my ex while i was pregnant b.c now i don't even know if he's gonna be in our daughters life and it's  my own fault i kept putting off talking to him about it and thought i had more time but go figure i have my baby 1month and half early don't make the same mistakes i have talk to the father and tell him if he don't wanna be in the kids life he GONNA pay child support  

Answer 4

My family likes to make excuses for the dead beat men and say " he just needed time".  Time for what? to kick himself in the *** for not using protection?  I think that you have every right to demand answers, even if they are not that you want.  He had fun makin it and he should (i think must) have fun taking care of it.  My motto is real men dont duck and run, they take care of theirs from day one.  Good luck, either way the baby will have a good mom to take care of it!

Answer 5

I think he is not giving you straight answers because HE is unsure of what he wants.  Give him a little time and I think he will come around.  A lot of guys act this way I hear.

Answer 6

ofcorse you have the right to call him and demand answers.