Can i change..?

Question

i am really short tempered,

i get mad at the little things

and i have trouble letting them go,

i remember every single thing ppl say to me because i take everything to heart

i cant help it its jus the way i am..

my frineds are always gettng mad at me because of this..

i feel like moving schools which i cant believe coz i love my friends and this bugs me and them so much that i jus feel so stressed at school because they do so many little things tha annoy me

am i just a bad person or is this the way i am?

is it possible for me to change..

Answer 1

Course you can change! This is behaviour we are talking about. Do an anger management course (you should be able to do this through school). They offer really good ways of dealing with your anger, and give you techniques to try out. You are obviously a good person, you can see what effect you are having on your friends and you want to take positive steps to sort it out. Go you!

Answer 2

No...you're not a bad person.

I was the same way when I was younger. Yes you can change but you have to be willing to work to make that change. No one can do it for you. It won't happen overnight, and people either accept you for who you are or they don't.

Take some YOU TIME.................sort it all out. Don't take "everything" to heart. It will be hard at first, but in time you'll see how much easier your life will be when you don't.

Answer 3

don't let little things let you down take bubble bath to take at eases listen to conformer music

Answer 4

Im same you have to let the anger out but not on the loved one tell what you feel to the ones that hurt you.

dont keep it in

Answer 5

You can change... And it's gonna take some effort, but you'll be happy the way you are when you take things like a joke (like me)    

My classmates tease me alot but I just say "so...???" And they suddenly reply "wala lang"-->"nothing only"... It works for me and I can laugh at myself for being teased by others but never lose your temper only little things... you'll die of high blood sooner or later if you keep that habit...