Can i have advice on s*x?

Question

ok. i'm a teenager. and don't be bashing on me. i want real answers and advice. i can't go to anyone in my family or adults coz they'll just start yelling and c**p, trust me.

well,

i have a boyfriend. we've been to together for a year now. we've gone up to.. 3rd base so far. and recently the farthest we've gone is oral. i just want to know some Tips, warnings, advice, etc, on real s*x. I'm not saying that we will do it. i'm trying to save my virginity til mariage, but i just want to know just in case. sometimes we get carried away, but i can control myself, and him. but sometimes it gets hard. i just want some advice Just in Case..

Answer 1

Number one is protection. Get some condoms NOW and keep them handy. Don't put it off because you're pretending that you're "saving" it for some later date. That's the kind of thinking that leads to unplanned pregnancies and STDs. Sooner or later you're going to get yourselves so worked up that you're going to just go ahead and do it and that will NOT be the time to run to the drugstore for a pack of rubbers.

And just to clarify, you're already having s*x. You may be doing it in a way that keeps your hymen intact (so far) but the husband you look forward to having someday won't be terribly impressed that you "only did oral". Better to face the fact that people have s*x and marry a man who isn't hung up on a "virgin" bride.

Answer 2

Here is a tip...Wait until you become 18...I don't contribute to the delinquency of a minor.

Answer 3

always use protection. whether its condoms for him, for birth control for you. dont rush to have s*x. you have your whole life a head of you. you dont want to make it hard by getting a std or getting pregnant. it will hurt the first time you have s*x. you will most likely bleed. it will also suck the first time.  

Answer 4

My advice is do what you can mentally accept

Don't do ANYTHING you might regret the next day or next week

Stick with oral

Make him munch your muffin for a long time

Do NOT go past oral unless you can mentally deal with it the next day

Do what will please your head and not your zipper

Answer 5

If your under 17, don't have s*x, period ~!

If your 17 or over, listen to your body and respond, but respond appropriately and with caution.  Take it slow and please, whatever you do, use PROTECTION (condom).  Be safe, go slow and you'll have fun.  Lots of people on here will tell ya s*x is no good at an early age, but come on, we've all experimented, just do what is right for YOU.  

And, relax and ENJOY it too.  Its suppose to be enjoyable.  

Answer 6

My advice is to listen to your body and your mind. Don't have s*x unless you're ready. Whether that may be tomorrow or in 10 years. If you do you may miss out on the beauty of the act, which defeats the purpose.  Also, no matter how much a guy may beg or plead or try to convince you to have unprotected s*x, do not do it. Always use a condom.  

Answer 7

My only tip is be safe at all times. s*x will come naturally to you, it's a matter of experimentation, trying stuff out until you discover what works well for you. But it is imperative that you use a condom, or go on the Pill and take it PROPERLY. Contraception is the only reliable method of having safe s*x, so use it!