Can i please have people's help!!?

Question

He asked me out on Wednesday, so we've been going out for only a day...but i feel like nothing has really changed, i mean i know i should give things time, but we don't hold hands and he doesn't put his arm around me. I mean we hug when we see each other and when we say goodbye, and walks me to my class in the morning, but that's what we did before he asked me out. And when he asked me on a date, he didn't ask for it to just be the two of us, he asked for it to be a group of people. which I'm okay with because the people we will be going with are like my best friends, but still i always imagined my first date with me and the guy one on one. And i also don't know what to do if he makes a move to like kiss me or something because it will be my first kiss. And i just don't know what to do, or how to do it? can i just get some advice and or some words of encouragement?

Answer 1

well not much has changed other than you guys are now "offically" dating so that shows commitment, which is a good thing. also maybe he's just a bit nervous i mean if he asked you out it must mean he really likes you so give him a little bit of time and before you know it it will start to feel like you are boyfriend and girlfriend. besides if things go to fast you might get bored. Out of my years of dating this is the best part, all the butterflies and stuff getting nervous each time you see eachother so just try to enjoy it!

Answer 2

well you should definitally tell him you want to go on a single date. im sure he wont get offended he will prob be nervouss and like it. you should make your first kiss special cuz mine was dumb. it was like with this kid i met the same day and we were standing in the middle of the mall and i was like uhhh your dumb. hahah so just when it feels right. im sure he wouldnt try to like make out with you since you havent even gotten your first kiss yet so dont stress about that. just like take a breather and like only when you feel like its rightt. hope i could help a little  

Answer 3

Let things unravel however they please.

He is probably just as nervous as you are, and is probably new to all of this too.

If you would rather have your first 'date' be one-on-one, tell him!

But if you are just starting to get to know each other, a group date might make things easier on both of you.

Talk to him! The reason you are both nervous is because you like one another! Everyone wants to hear they are liked.

Loosen up and go with the flow, I am sure you will have a great time!

Answer 4

Just give things time. I think he's still used to you guys being friends, but when you guys spend more time together alone, things will get better, and you'll be able to do more together, like, lessons, malls, movies, Watch t.v, and other stuff ..

I'm sure he feels for you and if you give him time and a chance I'm sure you'll feel the same way.

Answer 5

wing it !

Dating is fun, and the nervous butterflies are actually my favorite part...

so take it slow, and have fun.

  

Answer 6

ok well u do need to give it time but if it really isnt changing trying talking to him or just say you were better off friends i hope i helped :)

Answer 7

it's not a date if there's a group of you there, tell him you want to go out with just him, if he isn't keen then he isn't keen. Kissing isn't all that difficult, it comes naturally.