Can i tell to my daughter's teacher about not letting this poor girl play with my daughter.?

Question

there is this child that is in my daughter's class that i don;t want to play with my daughter. she does not look clean at all. i don;t want my daughter to have her germ,

Answer 1

I would have to agree with everyone here. For you to not want your daughter to play with her just because she is not clean and your daughter could get germs. HELLO....your daughter can get germs from just playing on the playground. Their may be more to this other child then you even may know. Besides, the school can be aware of the situation of the child coming to school not as clean as others. and they may be taking care of it. But to keep children from playing together because of that reason is sad.  

Answer 2

You've got to be kidding right?

I bet they become best friends.

Answer 3

I hope that you are joking.

As a kindergarten teacher, I try very hard to create an atmosphere of acceptance in the classroom. I discourage isolating or bullying other students. It is a challenge.

I never realized that there would be parents like you to make it harder!

There are many children who come from disadvantaged or neglectful homes-- social skills and learning are even harder for them! They need the other children to be kind to them, not treat them like dirt.

Remember, the lessons you teach your daughter now will stay with her forever. If you discourage her from playing with another student for superficial reasons, you are telling your daughter that appearances matter more than heart.

That is a disgusting lesson.

Answer 4

No, lol you shouldn't. It is a matter of heart-feelings. If you do not know the situation of that child, it would not be proper and specially to ask your daughter's teacher. It would only ruin your image to that teacher. May be you try to see if you can meet this girl's parents and try to mingle with them that would give you an idea of the situation. Parents should not teach their own children to be judgmental of others. We all have germs and get infected time to time. You can not avoid that. Just think, if your child is sick and sneeze on some child. And that child's parents complain to you saying because of your child sneeze on our child that is why our child is sick. Your child spread  germs on our child. Would you like to hear that? Or do you think it would be pleasant for somebody to tell you that?

Answer 5

OMG grow up.  The child cannot help that she does not "look" clean.  Your daughter is going to encounter all kinds of children (and germs) in school.  We are to teach our children compassion and caring for those less fortunate then us.  Please do not turn your child into an elitist brat.    

Answer 6

that is a horrible thing to say. how about instead of that, you talk to the teacher about maybe trying to find out why this girl is so dirty. she may be abused. dont be so insensitive!

Answer 7

I was one of these kids. You are teaching your daughter to be a snob.

Answer 8

sounds like mommy needs to grow up more than the children do.  have you thought about the "poor"girl at all? you know NOTHING about this child and are passing judgment.  why not bring your "issues" to light to the school counselor to see if something needs to be done to HELP this child rather than make her an outcast because of your insecure immature attitude

Answer 9

That's so mean. It's not her fault, it's her parent's responsibility to take care of her. Maybe that teacher should talk to the parents, I think that would be a better solution.  

Answer 10

you should be ashamed of yourself.  maybe you should talk to yourself about why you think your daughter is better than the other kids in the class.  if your child is too good for the class-put her in a snotty school.  you are the cruelist person.  shame on you if you EVER say anything like that in front of your daughter.  she will grow up to be a b***h just like you.  

did you ever think that maybe there are problems at this childs house.  why don't you talk to the teacher about that and help this poor child.

Answer 11

If you tell the teacher that, she will think you are snobs, and will be very anti your family, thinking they're just snobs, and will be looking for any reason to get your daughter in trouble. Do you know know it's not the way you look, it's what's inside that counts? That is thought to small children. Then the other girl will be offended and ask the teacher why she can't play with a friend. And also, you have no right to offend that little girl, did she complain about you? I don't think think so. Hope that helped.

Answer 12

No, that is not an option. You could tell your daughter but it's up to her. That's the wrong way to have a child thinking also. You don't know that child's situation, DYFS may need to get involved. Be careful, what goes around, comes back around ten fold.  

Answer 13

you are disgusting  

Answer 14

Get off your high horse and think about someone possibly less fortunate than yourself for a change. You should be ashamed. Your question makes you sound like a very ignorant and egotistical person. I do not know if this is really the case, but that's how you sound. Get over it and do not punish people based on their appearances or social standing.

Answer 15

DEAL WITH IT!

Answer 16

No, you can't.  Shame on you for asking.  Is this how you live your life?  Modeling a great snobbery for your child?  I understand wanting to keep her safe, but you cant follow her around  with sanitizer all her life... The little girl you speak of may need help, instead of your turned up nose.  

Answer 17

At one of my old jobs, the owner of the company was a real hands on guy and walked around covered in filth all day. One day he went to Tiffany's because it was his anniversary with his wife and he wanted to get her diamond earrings. Of course he came from the worksite and basically looked like a homeless man. No one would wait on him. Finally a young girl approached him and asked if she could help him, he left that day with the earrings for his wife, and that girl went home with a $5,000 tip for being decent and seeing past his exterior.

Never judge a book by its cover.