Can men be attracted to there daughters?

Question

I mean, I just do not want kids. I do not want this potential perversion in my household. I have seen so many mothers treat there daughters like they were a sexual threat.

And read this. http://answers.yahoo.com/question/index;_ylt=AlXn_rFwCCkQV7.jMPNyl_YjzKIX;_ylv=3?qid=1006041607414

Any thoughts?

Does Islam treat family dynamics in this way at all?

Answer 1

Brother they are not Muslims

Thanks Allah That we are Muslims

And didnt you see what that father in Austria Did ?

Allahu Akbar  

Answer 2

Allah has just created us as males and  females. And described who is haram and who is not.That's all about it.

This stuff is all the imagination of contorted minds. They make/force themselves to have subnormal attractions . Like if u tell a lie several times, u begin to feel urself that it's true. These perverts keep thinking filth all the time and their imaginations come up with the most repulsive fancies.

Incest is sick. And I believe that it's punishment should be worse than that of adultery.

Answer 3

If you have siblings, you would know how to respond to this question. It is impossible to feel any sort of closer relationship with any family member that is blood-related. It is a human thing to distinguish between a non- relative and a relative. Parents should love their children but not in a sexual way of course.

If any father does indeed, have different feelings towards his daughter (s) then he is mentally ill and should see a doctor. They are too close to actually "love" each other romantically (not a father and daughter kind of way).

It's disgusting to see people having these thoughts about their children.

I mean, aren't there enough women out there in the world? Islam is (like any other religion) completely against this idea of a relationship. One cannot be in love with a family in a "sexual" way. The person would be considered psychologically sick!!

Answer 4

BLECH! sorry, your question made me a bit sick, but it so isnt your fault.

Yes, exactly, if a father does feel anything like that about his daughter, either she is his step daughter, or that guy is a psycho.

Because, a father and a mother mutually bring up their child and have been with her since she was born, they are emotionally attached with their child and that child is like a piece of their own heart. So there just isnt any chance of this.

Answer 5

Assalmu alaikum,

well those perverted feelings are not exist among Muslims because it is against the nature, and parents by nature have parental feelings toward their kids such as sympathy, caring, love etc.

actually sexual abuse is a sickness, and who do it he/she must be suffering, thus he have to be treated in psychotherapy, whatever was his belief.

that doesn mean not to have kids, if you care to you household, just give them the enough amount of caring and watch them.

Allah (swt) says:

"Recite that which hath been inspired in thee of the Scripture, and establish worship. Lo! worship preserveth from lewdness and iniquity, but verily remembrance of Allah is more important. And Allah knoweth what ye do" (29:45)

Answer 6

that's the definition of a psychopath.

Answer 7

Sick

Answer 8

well, i am not a father but parents have love for their kids but in a sick way!!

probably some mentally sick or an alcoholic parents think like that!!

Answer 9

Are you sick in the head or what?

If i had seen a SINGLE mother in my life treating her daughter in such a way. As a mother of a daughter she is so precious and loved it would not even enter my head to think such a thing that's just plane sick.

No there is no such "dynamics" or (sickness/perversion) in any way like this in Islam.

Answer 10

wtf? ur question sickens me bro.............how the **** could u be attracted to ur daughter in a lustful way? ru a father of some unlucky daughter?

Answer 11

r u a muslim daughter?? IF YES THAN U KNOW

who r u for ur father

Answer 12

May Allah guide such people. ~!

astagfirullah but thats just a disgusting and disturbing fact as well.

Answer 13

i think its rare for a man to do that to his daughter, but that shouldnt be a reason not to have kids, allah has control in all, just ask allah to protect your family when you do salah and allah will answer your call

Answer 14

Well we muslims are not from mars.. we are humans like any other human on this earth..

Im a mother, so I cant speak for men..

but.. men are men and fathers are fathers, doesnt matter what religious faith you have.. I feel fathers love their daughters.. in a much more different way than sons.. Daughters are the gems of their eyes.. they love them, want to guard them from all the worlds evils.. and daughters have a way of wrapping themselves around their fathers hearts, to get spoiled literally...

I cant imagine any father wanting to view his beloved daughter as a sexual object.. the relationship isnt such.. Only a perverted man would think like this.. the true, natural, undying love a father has for his daughter is pure and wonderful.. not perverted... ewwww!

I and my husband are muslim.. we love our children so much.. and my daughter is the apple of his eye.. he loves her too much!...  

Answer 15

These are just one of those things that I am glad to be a Muslim

Answer 16

NOOOOO that's NOT right. Nothing like that in Islam. DISGUSTING !!! EWWWW!! My dad treats me like a princess!  

Answer 17

Thats why Allah told Muslim women to cover themselves. We muslim women wear full dress, which is lose and not transparent. We also cover our body with shawl.

24:31 And tell the believing women to lower their gaze and to be mindful of their chastity, and not to display their charms [in public] beyond what may [decently] be apparent thereof; hence, let them draw their head-coverings over their bosoms.  And let them not display [more of] their charms to any but their husbands, or their fathers, or their husbands’ fathers, or their sons, or their husbands’ Sons, or their brothers, or their brothers’ sons, or their sisters’ sons, or their womenfolk, or those whom they rightfully possess, or such male attendants as are beyond all sexual desire,  or children that are as yet unaware of women’s nakedness; and let them not swing their legs [in walking] so as to draw attention to their hidden charms And [always], O you believers - all of you - turn unto God in repentance, so that you might attain to a happy state!

Answer 18

This is a affect, Which we can say a reverse Affect,

Why don't we thing every women in the street is a daughter of one, a mother of someone,ect.

This is the affect of sexual  nature u developer in YOU! (all readers)

ISLAM HAS MADE ALL THE MUSLIMS BROTHERS & SISTERS.....



This is a simple solution!

  

Answer 19

a daughter a sexual threat to a mother?

a father getting sexually attracted to a daughter?

how sick it is !

Alahamdulillah i m a muslim.

we are taught to discipline ourselves from a young age.

so our mothers and fathers do not have such filthy feelings.

Alhamdulillah

Answer 20

I really have no idea what you are talking about.  If you were to marry such a man of course you could expect such things, but I am guessing you  would not choose such a man and therefore it would not be an issue.  Sister I think you really need to be honest with yourself.  If you do not want kids, I am quite sure there are other reasons for that (perhaps you do not want the responsibility, or you are afraid you would not be a good mom).  But to say that a child invites your husband to be a molester is just way out on a limb.  

Answer 21

Those perverts will have their mentality corrected of we keep banging their head to a wall for continuous 4 hrs..sick...

"Are mothers attracted to their sons,when they see spn's private patrs while bathing them"..Gross...Childeren are parents more sweetest part of life.But i see in newspapers that many men have s*x with their small daughters and also "gift" them to his friends..I wish all such perverts,men and women,get locked in jail whole life,irrespective of religion.

This is a very good qstn.I was feeling very low when i read this news in newspaper yesterday.I was talking to my husband,if world comes as if we can't even trust out parents,how and why are we living here.Whom should we belive?Whom should we trust.We are not stand alone islands to live pn our own without trusting anybody right!!

Life should move on,and both men and women should take care of themselves and their family..There is no other choice on how to live in this world.

Some psychos have "s*x" with kids of 7 months to dead body of 60 yrs old women..I find it strange..very strange..and that realization makes me fear to death,how to live in this world..

Allah guard us all..Amen

Answer 22

eh its very very rare, but i wouldnt worry about it too much, as long as you satisfy him, he wont have his eyes or mind anywhere else

see today's society is freaken corrupted. As long as there's a hole available, doesn't matter what gender, or even if its human or not, it will attract perverted men. This society has made men perverted...change of environment might help..

im so sorry that this is your concern, we really shouldnt even have to think/ worry about this..

Answer 23

This is what happens when people do not learn to discipline their desires and lusts from a young age. They grow up constantly sexually immersed with the World around, it's always on their minds. Hence this is the result.

Islam goes to the root of the problem, one must learn self-discipline of their nafs and be God-conscious [have taqwa] at all times.

Answer 24

Its really disgusting !!!!!!!!!!!!!

Its a kind of mental illness .............a normal father cant think that way even if he is an Atheist.

Answer 25

This sounds so sick. A guy being attracted to his kid. Yuck yuck yuck !!