Can men have a chance and NOT cheat?

Question

If a man if given a chance is he able not to cheat? Me and my husband were talking about this both came up with different answers. He said you have a hot girl hitting on you and there is no man that would say no. And I said I thought there are men that are still honest enough not to do it. Help give me your thoughts.

Answer 1

there are a lot of men and women who can resist temptation. but if there are no consequences, i think most would go for it...

Answer 2

I think there are men honest enough not to do it.

Answer 3

The same goes for men and women.If someone is in a relationship that works well, he will be able to say no quiet easily. Not every man or women acts like a dog. With all the sexually transmitted diseases and condoms not being 100 percent save, i think some people will use common sense and say no.

Answer 4

My husband wouldn't cheat if he got the chance cause he loves me more then anything and wouldn't do anything to hurt me or our marriage plus he is strongly against infidelity.

There are millions of men who wouldn't either but it doesn't sound like your husband is one of them

Answer 5

of course anyone at any time has the chance to cheat but you have to have the type of honorable partner who sees not hurting the other worth more than the payoff of cheating.

Answer 6

Yes, a man can have a chance to cheat and not do it.

I am not a terribly handsome man, but I do have an easy manner and come across as intelligent and humorous. I also don't catch subtle signals. I have been hit upon many times in the course of my life, and a lot of them were times that I would have had no realistic chance of getting caught. I took none of those chances, even though the women weren't just giving me signals. we would be talking and then they would invite me to their rooms, and put their hand on my leg or run it along my arm. These were not flirtatious conversations, just interesting ones.  I'm sure my wedding band helped too.

I took none of them. I politely declined every one.  When I was younger and newer to marriage, I would let conversations or situations  get a little s**y because I am male and, honestly, we like talking about s*x with women. Mild flirting would turn into heavy flirting and sexual feelings getting strong, and I would have to leave.  Honestly.  

I won't say that my wife and I have one of those fabled loves, but I to love her enough to empathize with her and couldn't hurt her like that.

I also feel that I am in control of my gonads, not the other way around.  I am not helpless against my sexual urges and can stop whatever activity is causing those urges if I want to.  If I go further with those feelings and let them take control, it is because I LET them take control. It would be a choice, not an uncontrollable event.  

I also tell my wife everything. She realizes that I do not cause those events, and they only happen once every 3 or 4 months now that I try to avoid situations that could turn that direction.  I won't lie about this-she gets jealous and turned on when I tell her a woman hit on me, which works out to my benefit in the end.  She knows she can trust me to not cheat, so it has become a bedroom game, not a bone of contention.

Answer 7

There still are faithful, monogamous men, and husbands who honour their vows. I snagged me one of those some time ago. Men who say it's not possible are just trying to lighten their responsibility for their own weakness.

Answer 8

Certainly. My husband has his flaws, but he is able to resist the temptation of a pretty woman. Yes, he's had opportunities.

When we took our wedding vows, we meant them.

Answer 9

Surely there are men who still are. Of course the same could also be said about women.

Answer 10

Chances of man cheating given the situations are greater in today enviroment than in the past. As much as I loved my wife, if a hot chick hit on me. I will be greatly tempted.  

Answer 11

yes but I can't say the same about women

Answer 12

I know there are some. I got plastered with a guy in a hotel bar when I was in my mid-20s who took me back to his room and then started in with how he couldn't fool around on his wife. I didn't know he was married until we got there. I said okay and left. Men are easily seduced, but some do have values and morals.