I have a question I'm 26 years old female,been to school,never had a record about to join the Air Force I am engaged to a man who "was" in the army but was discharged for being caught with weed,before this he had a good job as a army medic; received many awards but married the wrong girl who basically help mess up his career . But he had serious problems with his ex wife which resulted into domestic disputes and arrest. Which resulted him to want to kick himself out of the army hence the "weed". Apparently he was in a dark time in his life. Now I don't agree with what he's done in the past but people make mistakes and I believe people can redeem themselves.
Years later he meets me, he is a different person now,mature, doesn't use weed, is an avid church member,has an honest job respectable but not great) he's divorced from his ex and happy since we've been together. We're good with each other and respect one another and very much in love. Only one problem..... Do you think his past will effect my military career? My parents thinks it's a big mistake to marry because of his discharge which would be harder for him to get a good job and chances are I might be supporting him rather than him support me. And that seems to be a big problem for them. I understand they don't want me to carry the burden of the man's faults but he's not dependent on me he has his own job. But I am not worried about who will support who, that's my parent's issues. The fact is we love each other And my family just don't seem to understand that.
I'm curious for some good advice from people who been through this or is in the military that know about how things like this work. Anyway Thanks ;)
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