Can my promiscuocity get me in trouble??

Question

I am a promiscuous person. Married, the question is: If someone expose my promiscuous affairs to the public and it cause trouble with my husband (he is in the military) and cause problems with my business and friends, even if that person was a old affair and what it was exposed to the public is true, can i sue? Can i sue for damages to my persona and business?

Answer 1

I do not think you can , but I certainly am not expert . I would not think you could sue someone for telling the truth and you seem to admit to what they said being true , so filing against him for hurting you and your business would not fly in court because you did the deeds so you are responsible for the consequences . Again though I am not in the legal profession , so I do not know this to be the law .

Good luck

Answer 2

Because you are posting this question you are exposing yourself to the fact that a lawsuit could be a future issue therefore you can not.  You are hereby admitting that you are at fault and that this is premeditated and not a fly by the seat of your pants / spur of the moment action.  You are "doing your homework" regarding the issue at hand.  You are researching an affair.  You can not erase computer investigations and if it came to court it would be exposed that you researched your actions.

Answer 3

In a word,no. The only action you have at you're disposal is slander. If what has been said can be shown to be true then it is not slander and you have no case. As they say,"If you can't take the heat, stay out of the kitchen.

Answer 4

It was your own fault, though. How can you sue someone who you slept with (your own choice entirely) who then exposed your little affairs to either one person or many people? I'm not sure that'd do too well in court. Besides, that person is telling the truth and you can't deny it. If anybody is in the wrong here, it's you, honey.

Answer 5

No you knew this when you decided to have the affairs.  You will just reap what you sew.

Answer 6

No, you can't sue unless the person is telling lies about you. If it is true, you just have to accept the consequences of being unfaithful, which generally means problems with your husband and potential loss of friends. Why would it affect your business?  As for damages to your person, you are 50% responsible for the damages - are you going to sue yourself too?  

Answer 7

Get real!

    I don't understand why you would even think of trying to sue. If you've done things that you aren't proud of any damage that results is from your own hand.

    If the truth about you isn't flattering, the only person you have to blame is yourself. Any legal action for character assassination and/or defamation has to meet several criteria; In your case the allegations wouldn't be demonstrably false, so you would have no grounds to sue.

    Lastly, don't fool yourself into thinking that you can get away with it forever.

    

Answer 8

Firstly no Judge would find your position sympathetic

Also don't feel 'promiscuous person' covers it - its adultery

I just can't believe your husband is serving his country and your sleeping about behind his back

I have zero sympathy for you

Answer 9

You can't sue for something that is true.  If it was false statement that was being said you could sue but not for the truth.  Maybe you should have thought about it before you did it.

Answer 10

no, you did it.  Should have thought about that before laying down

Answer 11

yes.

Answer 12

No, you can't sue someone for revealing something that is true. Your behavior would have been the root cause of damages to your persona and business, not the person who revealed it.

Answer 13

you can't sue people for telling the truth. if it walks like a **** and it talks like a ****...it must be a ****. if you didn't want it to get around, you shouldn't have cheated!!

Answer 14

Who would you sue, yourself?  You have to sleep in the bed that you mad... If your sleeping around and your married your breaking the contract you signed with your husband, disrespecting him and yourself, your the reason why all military wives are thought of as whores and gold digger... you know the whole buy your boyfriend a new car while your husband is over seas... its sad...  

Answer 15

you cant sue someone you had an affair with simply for saying you had an affair. You need to put a damper on your libido and keep your legs shut while you are married or get a divorce and do whatever you want. if you get in trouble you made your bed, messed around in it and then you would need to lay in it.  

Answer 16

You might consult a lawyer, but I think you may well be screwed again if only in a legal sense on this occasion.

Answer 17

It can and probably will ruin your life and you cannot sue someone for telling a known truth.

Answer 18

Hon, you already caused the damage to your persona.  And the trouble with your husband started the day you strayed, he just doesn't know it yet.

Horse is outta the barn, so to speak.  Too late to rein it in now. You can't sue for what you were a willing party to.  

Answer 19

Your promiscuity has already gotten you in trouble.  You're just to blind to know it!