Can my x wife take my kids on a cruise without my permission?we have shared custody in pa?

Question

Can my x wife take my kids on a cruise without my permission?we have shared custody in pa?

Answer 1

Most Caribbean islands, and especially Mexico, require a notarized letter signed by the non-traveling parent(s) allowing the traveling parent (or grand parent or other named persons) to take the child out of the country.  Make the letter as specific and detailed as possible (ie. dates, countries to be visited, etc.).

If one of the parents are deceased, bring a copy of the Death Certificate.

Answer 2

You will need an affidavit from both parents.  Same thing if kids are traveling with grandparents -- the parents both must give their ok.

And when applying for a passport (which will soon be required for cruises, even for minors), both parents will need to go with the child to apply (or have the affidavit).  Even if the parents are married to each other.

With all the abductions by a parent, these rules and laws have become a necessity to protect the children.

Answer 3

It really all depends on the agent checking her in. They may or may not ask if she has permission. If they see a children travelling without both parents they are supposed to enquire but they don't always.

Answer 4

as far as i know she will need your approval to take the children out of the state period. it doesnt matter if they are going to another state or out of the country she still needs permission

Answer 5

It depends on your custody agreement, so best to contact the lawyer that drew that up.  The bigger question here is what are your real motives for not approving of her taking the kids on the cruise.  Are you trying to punish her or fight with her and indirectly ending up punishing your kids?  Unless you have concerns that she is going to throw them overboard or sell them into slavery in some foreign country, why wouldn't you want them to enjoy such a great experience?

Answer 6

She will need written documentation that you are approving the trip and all the contact information.

Answer 7

In most cases, documentation would be required. Do you really hate your x-wife so much that you'd deprive your children of this opportunity? I would say it's time for the two of you to get over it and work together on what's best for the kids!!!!

Answer 8

If you have shared custody of course she can, so can you, as long as she doesn't violate the custody agreement..

Answer 9

i dont think so...maybe you should post this in laws and ethics