Can some body please help me? something only a male bi or a female can answer.?

Question

while i was in b.c i met this guy. here is what happened

it was 1 in the mourning , and me and my friend were looking for a pay phone. we found a rest stop near abbotsford b.c. now i am thirteen and my friend is 51. we saw this guy sitting on a bench with his legs spread open. my friend dropped me off while he was parking than i ran to the washroom. at the corner of my eye i seen the guy following so i went around the building once. when i got in the washroom i seen him stroaking his ****. seeing that i went to the last stall. later on he my friend walked in and tried to get me out. i was still usin it than i told him to meet me in the vehicle. the guy follows my friend leaving me inside alone. outside my friend asked the guy if he was looking for s*x. the guy says "yah, im really horney. what about your friend is he bisexual. so my friend says idk then the guy says that i was really hot then he left. just as i was leaving the guy calls me in. i followed him not knowing what was going to happen. we went into the last stall and he asked to bl*w me. i was shocked, scared, and curios at the same time. so after a while iwent for it. he did what he wanted and tried it for the first time with anybody. after that i felt scared and weird.but i felt like something inside me went free.

i miss the guy and i dont even know his name, and it was so soon too. and iam only thirteen. the guy was in his early 20s

please answer on what i should do now

Answer 1

I'm guessing your not going to listen to me, but why the h**l are you hanging out with a 51 year old "friend" who would tell a stranger at a rest stop that he "doesn't know" if you're bi?  If I had a child with me, and some freak at a rest stop asked if this child was bi I would report him to the police and tell him to get the h**l away from us.  This guy was trolling around for himself and you - what a disgusting pig.  Do your parents know that you're hanging out with a 51 year old guy who's trolling for s*x at rest stops?I guess this is the mother in me, but if any "friend" that my 13 year old child was hanging out with did not protect my child from having s*x with a stranger at a rest stop, that friend would have their *** kicked and be reported to the police.  I know that you're focused on this issue of the guy you screwed around with, but I'm begging you to stop hanging around this older pervy "friend".  Older people are supposed to protect and care for younger people, not lead them into some S****y rest stop anonymous s*x act.  It doesn't matter at all that you're bi.  The problem is that you were molested by a rest stop pervert and yes, this is statutory rape, even if you were not forced.  it's illegal for anyone over the age of 18 to have s*x with a person under 18 even if it's consentual. and this "friend" who is old enough to be your grandfather allowed it to happen, and pretty much facilitated it.  He needs to be locked up as well.  Please, just be bi with someone your own age, and save s*x until you're older.  

Answer 2

what does age matter its just a number? if he was in his 20s doubt hes a pedofile maybe it wasnt right of him to ask you but how old do u look and was ur age discussed before all this happend? and im a L*****n so its cool that u feel that way i think g*y guys are cute and ur prolly bi if u still like chicks so yeah hope i helpd..im not gunna say aww u poor baby u got raped cuz if u liked it and he didnt know ur age it wasnt really rape..

Answer 3

Oh, you poor thing. He's a pedophile. He's NOT good for you, and what you did was not very smart, but I'm not here to scold you. Listen, you don't love him or miss him, you're just attached to him because he's the first person you let touch you like that. He should be reported to the authorities, what he did was illegal. I'm sorry you had to lose your virginity like that and I hope everything turns out okay. I don't have bebo, but you can e-mail me if you wanna talk. I hope things get better for you.

Answer 4

I'm almost positive it's illegal,

if not rape.