Can somebody help me please!!!!!!!?

Question

My Ex and I started texting each other. We went together a long time ago and he was the first dude I ever fell in love with. Our conversations have gone from casual to him talking about leaving his girl for me. I also have a boyfriend that I've been with for 2 years now. I guess what I'm trying to ask is what should I do? He has a girl, I have a guy, and were still falling for each other again. What would you do? what should I tell him? =[

Answer 1

I would approach the situation with due caution.

think about it this way, if he is willing to dump his girlfriend for you, than that is never a good way to start off a relationship. what will stop him from doing the same thing to you. i know it must all seem so great because he was your first love, and he wants you back. its all very flattering, but just remember that we all never truly get over our first loves, and i don't think its very fair to your current boyfriend to be flirting with your ex, and discussing getting back together before the two of you have broken it up.

you honestly have to do what is best for you, no one can tell you what to do, but here is another thing to think about it. what if he dumps his girlfriend for you, and you dump your boyfriend for him, and let's say all is good for a month, until he tires of you, because the same problems of last time are still there, (there was a reason he and you did not work the first time) so now he meets a girl and is talking with her about dumping you, and a month later he dumps you for someone else. you left a two year relationship for that? would you have regrets? and can you live with your decision?

your current boyfirend i think you should dump because odviously you don't respect him enough to be true to him, and it must mean your really not that into him anymore, so i guess if that is the case, you really should own up to that and don't string him along. you should tell him the truth, and let him go find someone who is going to be with him and not think of being with someone else.

so these are just some things to think about. there are pro's and con's to everything that we do, and since we all have no idea why you and your ex broke it off in the first place, than that really as i said is for you to evaluate and use your best disgresion. i really hope you work things out and find out what it is you really want. just remember to be honest with yourself and with your ex, and current boyfriend. it is a risk that you will have to decide if its worth taking or not. good luck.

Answer 2

if i were you i would have a think about why you and your ex broke up in the first place.

i personally have a no going back rule if you broke up once it's likely to happen again.  

Answer 3

KEEP YOUR CURRENT BF...YOU DON'T KNOW FOR SURE IF YOUR EX WILL ACTUALLY LEAVE HIS GF...HE MAY STILL KEEP HER ON THE SIDE, I WOULD KEEP THE CURRENT BF AND DATE THE EX  ON THE SIDE....PLUS YOUVE ALREADY GIVEN YOUR EX A PART OF YOUR LIFE...LET HIM WAIT, IF HE CARES HE WILL RESPECT YOUR CURRENT RELATIONSHIP

Answer 4

ummmm... stop txting him. He's your ex for a reason, and your obviously in a long and deep relationship with another guy. Stay away from him.

Answer 5

Can you remember why he is your ex?  Probably not important right now, but if you start dating him again will it become a big deal later?  How about your boyfriend, are you bored with him and need some excitement?  These questions all need to be answered by you.  If you are thinking about pursuing something with your ex again, make sure it is the absolute right decision for you and only you!!!  You will be the one to live with the consequences of your choices and actions.  How can you be so sure he will brake it off with this new girl?

Answer 6

Dont ever go unknownig what could of been this is something you should take to your partner now, let them known your honest feelings of the situation. If that person loves you enough thy will let you free your mind and soul and see that you are really meant to be theirs. If you end up with the guy you were dating and everything is perfect you would be very satisfied with the choice you made.

Answer 7

focus on your guy .. you dont want to s***w something up for something that is old ..  

Answer 8

First of all, each of you already have someone, so that's going to hurt two people having to break up w/them.  Second di you remember why you broke up in the past.  Can you put the reason you originally broke up behind you & take a chance it won't happen again?  Would you be taking a chance on going back w/him again if the same thing should happen again.  Then you would have hurt the one you're now going with, & the same w/him.  Although, it sounds like he's willing to break up w/her anyway, Does that even tell you anything about him now.  Does that in a way tell you he's going w/someone but doesn't care about her.  Just do some serious thinking before you make a move you just might regret...Best to you, & trust you make the rite decision for you & all involved...:)

Answer 9

what you should first do is ask yourself  "do i love this guy?" & "am i happy with who im with now" if your not happy dump him but if you are stick around to see if youll get more you never know you could end up falling in love, but if your really not feeling it dump him go for the other guy. if you do love the guy your txting give him another chance.



i hope i helped =]]]

Answer 10

stay away don't s***w what already have

Answer 11

Don't leave if you have a good guy that you love. But if you don't love/aren't in love with the guy you're with, then leave him, life's too short

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Answer 12

tell him that u have a friend  that u lik and he likes back and hook his gf with ur bf ..

Answer 13

Well you are going to s***w up everything you both have, and then the renewed relationship will not last either! But you will do it any way because you said falling so it is on. Let it follow its ourse.

Answer 14

Just move on.