Can somebody please help???

Question

My old friend got pregnant with some guy, and now she's coming back to me for guidence. What should I do???

Answer 1

you can only listen to her.  she has decisions that she has to make on her own and they have to be her decisions... you can't influence her bc if she decides later what she did was a mistake..you don't want her to blame you.  besides... she made the decision to have unprotected s*x without consulting you.... she can make this decision on her own as well.  i'm not saying to shut her out.... just listen w an open ear and don't criticize her.

and just let her know what ever she does...you will support her and help her in anyway that you can.

always be safe yourself.... always wear a condom.  and if she is in trouble... and you think she is not handling it correctly.. tell your parents.

if your're worried about telling your parents...tell them they have to promise not to tell anyone.  

also, you should tell your guidance counselor at school.  they are sworn to secrecy and would never sqeal with anything you tell them in confidence.

good luck

all the best :)

Answer 2

There are only two choices. For giving Correct advices FIRST READ THE INFORMATION BELOW. May be she also need to read all info

Answer 3

support her as much as you can,be there for her and the baby

Answer 4

Send her back to the guy that got her pregnant.

If he was mature enough to get her pregnant, hopefully he's mature enough to give her "guidance".

Answer 5

Giver her all the options:

-Have and keep the baby, maybe get married

-Put the baby up for adoption

-Or abortion

Does they guy know? He should. And they can discuss what they want to do with the baby. And maybe bring her to a clinic or a doctor.