Can somebody please tell me why women ask so many questions at all the wrong times?

Question

I mean, really, they expect immediate answers even when they know your mind is preoccupied.

Answer 1

because we dont think the same way

not to mention that you guys dont express yourselves or your situations,or  frustration so on so we dont know whats going on

o and also because when you talk to us MOST of us immediately stop and listen <even if we act like we dont>

so we subconciously expect this from you

Answer 2

Because men can focus in only one thing at the time, and women in 2 or more.

Answer 3

Sometimes guys are not as open with their feelings and you do not try to explain how you are feeling and us women will ask questions, and look for clues from your answers to figure out how you are feeling.

Answer 4

Women are weird.

Answer 5

may b her time of asking questions r not right time for u .lol.  anyway b aware of the present( time)&dont b impatient to answer.after all, it's only questions.lol

Answer 6

If the problem is that the questions come at the wrong time,  then you could easily say that you will be glad to answer their questions later because at the moment your mind is somewhere else and you need some space.

If you already know how long you need, tell them. If you aren't sure about when your worries will vanish, then tell them that once you're  available you'll get back to them. If this request for space is being followed by more questions, tell them to trust you and the time when you'll get back to them.

My guess is that the questions are happening because "these women" are seeing you preocuppied, and you aren't giving them any feedback about your situation or how they could help. You aren't being yourself and is apparent that there's something wrong going on, and so they worry about you.

Some women when they have problems they talk them over with friends and family, however, some men usually retrieve and pull away. Some men deal with their problems alone. So this may explain why they want to pull out words from you because may be you are withdrawn and talking as little as possible.

Therefore, your question as to why "women ask so many questions at all the wrong times" sounds more like something normal to happen when you have someone withdrawn, but saying that nothing is wrong while acting different.

You send mixed messages when what you say doesn't match how you act. Therefore, if you asked these women to give you some X amount of time for yourself because you need to recharge, then I am sure that they will grant your wish of not asking you questions at the wrong time.

Answer 7

To throw you off.

Answer 8

if you dislike women so much, go find a b/f.

Answer 9

Why do you ask that????

:-)

Answer 10

Dude. Its not the wrong time for women. Its the wrong time for men. Women start these questions at the best and most oppurtune time to get the best effect from men (usually just at touchdown).

Answer 11

What makes you think we ask too many questions?

What do you imagine is the wrong time?

How are we to know when the RIGHT time is?

Are you saying we talk too much or just not at the right time?

How could your mind be preoccupied when WE are there?

What's the big deal with answering and just getting it over with?

I think you're imagining things.

:D

Answer 12

Cause Men are from Mars amd Women are from Venus. Men can only focus on one thing at a time!

When woman is asking question, obviously she's more important than whatever you are preoccupied with.

Answer 13

Because we aren't men and it takes us a while to figure out that men can't multitask as we can so very well.  Statistics prove it! It's sad that you guys can't multitask, but true, but on the positive side, you guys are d**n good at doing one thing at a time and doing it right most of the time the first time around.  Please enjoy yourself and smile when a woman doesn't get you because it's not much else you can do.

Answer 14

Women are diffrent than men and I mean more complex. They don't think men well some of them do but anyways women and men are diffrent and so we think diffrent.

Answer 15

this question is up to individual interpretation......how many questions determines the description of "so many"?  what is the "wrong time"? i need more details, please....that is, if this is a serious inquiry....but, based on the broadness, i would say that women are asking you alot of questions because they are trying to get a real answer, and it is the wrong time for you because you are not up to divulging yourself