Can someone PLEASE tell me how to get pregnant. Everytime we try,which is OFTEN,it never works

Question

Me and my husband have been trying for over a year to get pregnant.We try ALL the time but it doesn't seem to be working.We are really upset because we want a baby !!! Can someone PLEASE help us =)

Answer 1

You need an ovulation test kit, or to learn how to tell you are ovulating by discharges.  You can research this online as the kits can be a little pricey.  Your best bet for conception happens if you have s*x during ovulation.  You can lessen sperm count and your vaginal environment will actually eliminate sperm if you have s*x too often.  Its about quality, no quantity :) Try not to stand up immediately after s*x (let gravity be your friend).  I have also heard of women using Instead cups(they are usually to catch menstrual fluid, but supposedly hold s***n near your cervix and upwards if inserted after s*x). Make sure you see a doctor.  It is important to get preconception checkups anyways for the health of the baby but also they may want to do fertility test to make sure everything is as it should be.Good luck to you, don't get discouraged...it can take a young healthy couple a year or more to get pregnant even using proper technique and every couple is unique!

Answer 2

dont try to pinpoint your ovulation... that can be stressful and by the time you think youve "got it" you could have missed it.... i suggest, if you are regular, have s*x for the first 2.5 wks like everyother day or every 2 days, but not longer than that bc you dont wanna miss the ovulation date... different factors weigh into why you change the day you ovulate... so have s*x has much as possible without thinking of it as a chore! it should still be lovemaking!!!

best of luck and much BABY DUST!!!

Answer 3

The most effective time if halfway through your cycle. And it helps if you give his little men a day or two between going for it to increase the potency of his sperm. You could also see a specialist...

Answer 4

I always thought the same thing. I then start taking one a day women's vitamins & it wasnt a month and I was pregnant. When its yalls time it will happen. =)

& I wish you to the best of luck.

Answer 5

hey there,

You know I feel you girl. Every timee I think I have this whole thing down with the ovulating thing I learn something else.

I did a lot of reading on here, there is some very good info. I was told to go to a free chart site like mymonthlycycle.com and I have been doing that for 3 months.

So, I know I am ovulating tomorrow. If it doesnt work then I am going to get an ovulating kit for next month..

Good luck....

Answer 6

You must have s*x when you are ovulating, which is midway in your menstrual cycle.  If you have a normal 28 day cycle, you should ovulate on about the 14th day after your period starts.  You should have s*x a couple days before, the day of, and a couple after.  Reason being, the sperm "lasts longer" than the egg.  The sperm can "hang around" and wait on the egg.

Also, be patient.  It often takes a year or longer to become pregnant with the first child.  You may actually be trying too hard.  Relax and try to not treat it as a job, so to speak.  Just enjoy yourself and try not to dwell on it.  I know that's easy to say, but I've been in your shoes before.  When we finally just said, "if it happens, it happens" and stopped worrying ourselves silly, that's when we got pregnant.

Best of luck to you, hang in there.

Answer 7

Its been proven that if you have s*x very very often then you are less likely to get pregnant due to low sperm count. IF you have s*x everyday or sometimes even every other day he ejaculates in which he needs time to "refuel" so to speak. Give it 2-4 days in between s*x so there is time for his sperm count to build back up and possibly produce better results.Also if you stress out about it a lot it can temporarily "delay" fertility. Its just like when you stress really bad you can miss a period or two...try to have fun with it.TRUST ME,I KNOW its hard to just forget about making a baby and have fun tryin to,but its the best thing on the plate right now. It took me almost 2 years to get pregnant with our 2nd daughter,when finally after looking at that horrible negative pregnancy test every time...we decided that we were not going to make it TOP priority to get pregnant again and just have fun tryin to get pregnant. If it happened then WOOHOO if not then we would just continue tryin and having fun while doing it. It took the stress off us A LOT and 3 months later we were pregnant with our second daughter. Like I said I know its hard to just throw it aside for the sake of conceiving but try your best. Also if you haven't already you might want to check into both of your fertilities being tested.One of you might be infertile possibly(which I HOPE is not the case and hope you two can get pregnant) but if you are there are ways to get pregnant through In-Vitro and whatnot.Also try different positions. I've heard "doggie style" is one of the best ways to conceive because he can penetrate a lot deeper that way than most the other positions. Just try switching it up a bit,and I've heard that women have higher chances of getting pregnant if they have an o****m about the same time the man does.

Best of Luck to both of you

Answer 8

I sware I got pregnant by using this method!. After s*x I proped my hips up with my hand and put my feet up on the wall for about 10 min!. Then I got up and pee'd and cleaned up whatever.. I did this a couple times after we had s*x! Now Im 20 weeks! =]]

Hope it works for you as well as it did for me!!