Can someone be your soulmate but you not be theirs??

Question

I've been thinking about this alot lately and its really annoying me...

I believe in soulmates and i know a few people who i believe are each others soulmates, but once you have found your soulmate, is it possible that you're not their soulmate??

Answer 1

I never thought of that, but I believe that could be possible.

Maybe when people first get together they are soulmates, but then as time goes by they change and need someone different for the person they have become.

I see a lot of couples that stay together for years and seem so perfect for each other, then they split up and one of them still thinks the relationship will come back together.

A lot of people don't show who they really are to people because they are afraid they might not be liked.

It's seem important that you be open and honest, or you might attract the wrong type of people.

I guess you could have more than one that seems right in your life, but until you have fully grown and matured you won't meet the right person.

Answer 2

The term soul mate is often thought about in the wrong context.  This is the definition:

1 : a person who is perfectly suited to another in temperament

2 : a person who strongly resembles another in attitudes or beliefs

A soul mate can be anyone with who you have mutual bond based on temperament, attitudes or beliefs.  So the word mutual is the determining factor.  It's like two halves making a whole.

Answer 3

I had to  look up Soul mate in the dictionary to remind myself of what it means, and it's a person temperamentally suited to another . So my answer is yes because we may find someone who is temperamentally right on for us, but something in our temperament isn't right for them .

Answer 4

Ok..

I also believe in soulmates. God arranges who your just meant to be with in heaven before your even born. You are born to complete that person and visa versa. You can't complete someone who doesn't want to be completed, and someone can't complete you if you don't want to be completed by this person. So if you are truly soulmates you will feel unconditional love towards them through the bad and the good. But this is how I see it. If you marry someone who you feel at the timeis perfect in everyway shape or form... but after a few yrs. in the relationship you just don't feel that way for them anymore after you get to know them better, then maybe your not thier soulmate and visa versa. BUT! People these days resort to divorse when times get tough and you grow apart with your spouse. That shouldn't be the case what-so-ever. You voed to be with them for the worse, sickness and health as long as you both shall live. So rather than ending this you shouldn't resort to divorce and talk with them. Exspecially if you have children. I hope I helped answer your question, maybe even best answer (never got it) I know I added in more than I should have but I'm just typing what I think. Good Luck! And I hope you too find a soulmate eventually. :D

Answer 5

come on, theres over 7 Billion people in the world.........you really think your gonna find that 1 other person that was meant for you ?

And then you gotta factor in the chance that the person doesnt live in Lebanon or somethin.

Soulmates = False.

Answer 6

Well technically yes and no. It depends on what you truly believe. You may think that that person is your soul mate and they do not return the feelings and thought, i would call that i miss match  copy cat. Put simply that the person you think is your soul mate looks and feels like the one that is right for you but really isnt the one for you. You will know when your soul mate comes, your true soul mate that is.

I hope this helps you out!

Answer 7

Thats lust, you also believe in fate dont you?

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Answer 8

Funny how soulmates seem to occur in the same geographical location.... lol

There are no soulmates. Relationships take work and understanding. People who don't believe that end up in divorce. There is no perfect spouse, some days you won't be able to stand the person! But a relationship can only exist when both partners are committed to making it work.... no matter what! So a one ended relationship can't work regardless of whether or not there are soulmates anyway.

When I met my hubbie I wanted to be around him, all the time, and he invited me to be there. So I knew he was the one for me. And our morals etc were very compatible. He was definitely NOT what I would have written on a piece of paper what I was looking for in a man. But he was close enough, and the wanting to be around each other constantly part is of course a huge in having a lifelong relationship!

Answer 9

I don't believe so, a soul mate referes to two souls who are linked together, so no

Answer 10

I think it's very possible to at least think that way for good reason, yet I'm not sure if soul mates exist, and no one will ever know for certain.

Answer 11

Soulmates are forever.  You just are so intuned to that person, its like they are almost a second skin.

Answer 12

Being a soulmate is a two way street.  Just by its very meaning you can figure that out.