Can someone help me please i need some advise?

Question

well im am 26 years old a single mother to a 17 months old baby girl well me and her father broke up about 6 months ago because he wanted his space wtf space you have a child anyways he moved from california to lowa to be with one of his ex girl friends he does even call his daughter nor buy her anything his last word to me where you and are daughter aint gonna stop me from what i wanna do so now i went to court to file full custody of my child but the judge denined my case because they cant located him i dont even now where he lives the court told me to get his address when i have that again file the paper again someone help me how i can get his address

Answer 1

well if you knew him good enough you will be able to find out exactly where he is through  at least one of his relatives that at least have the morals you do.as in he is wrong and your right.unless they think your a total bit%h.which I'm not saying you are.but who knows what kind of story he told them that they believe.good luck.my brother in law had to go through the same bs as you.eventually he got what he wanted.so don't give up.

Answer 2

wow! he sucks! Get a lawyer, I do not know California law...so check out at social services in your county and find out if there are any probono lawyers.Good luck!  I am a single mom after divorcing my sons father, and am doing fine.  Keep up your career and believe in yourself!  If you have any family there ask for their help.  Try finding him through classified ads in Iowa papers, if you know the town,check with the clerks office.  if you know his social security number, child support can find him, if he's on the birth cert.  God bless