Can someone help me with a girl controlling my best bud?

Question

Ok my freind is "in love" with this girl. The have had an on and off relationship for about 5 years, and togather for about 3 out of theose 5. She moved away and vistited for 2 weeks, but she decided to stay for anouther 2 months. And now he thinks he got her pregnant. And i know she isnt because she has to take birth control or her periods are so bad she has to go to the hospital. But he forgot about that and now he is in denial. Also she treats him like nothing, she ignores him when she is playing a game and comands him to do everything. But he thinks its all good and he is in control. When i can see though her plan to keep him around for a long time even though she doesnt love him since she loves anouther guy in her new town. And she just wants him to move there with her just incase things dont work out. And she refuses to take a pregnancy test so he doesnt know she isnt pregnant before he moves there with her. I need help since him and i are best bud and i dont want to lose him.

Answer 1

Don't interfere with your friend's relationship.  Respect his decision/s of independantly accepting the responsibilities of dating.  Let him learn that his choices and actions have natural consequence to those decision/s.  Focus on your life, your goals, your career, your education, etc...As disappointing as it may be to lose that quality time with him, consider discovering new things that will promote good heath mentally and physically.  Such as fitness, recreation, art/s and perhaps joining a volunteer program to help the less fortunate and/or for fund raising for a charitable community event.  Beleive in yourself, and be all you can be, but do so wisely.  In the meantime...know you are and have been a great friend, therefore, be there for him, should he need you to listen...as a sounding board.  Keep your opinions to self...don't cut her down...that is a hurtful thing to do to a friend.  Rather be a mentor that will help guide him toward the right direction wanting him to also be all he can be with her or without.  Hope that helps, thanks for asking.

Answer 2

go to his parents, explain, then leave them to tell him off...