Can someone help me with my boyfriend problems?

Question

Okay so I have a boyfriend, and we're kinda on and off. I love him dearly but sometimes I really don't get him. He says the same thing about me. Im a really jealous person, and I always used to be on his case, he feel that I can't trust him, and I dont know if I can. Hes gorgeous. And before we went out, he was'nt out. And he dated like alot of girls before we went together. Haha, anyway I just always get this feeling that theres someone else, and I need to start to trust him, and stop being so d**n jealous. But I don't know how, Any advice?

Answer 1

Cut the c**p...plain and simple. I used to be the same way and not only do I torture him/her but myself as well. If your ment to find out you will. Im not saying act blind and let obviosu things go, but dont snoop around. Your relationship will never last. I stopped and now i feel way better. If i find out then it wasnt ment to be.  

Answer 2

It sounds like your hiding something by accusing him of your own insecurities... On/Off relationships, don't work, i did it for four years, and I feel like I wasted my time...

But before taking out your rants on him, why don't you re-evaluate what it is about yourself that sees him as the kind of guy that would do something like this to you...  

Answer 3

put it like this if you love him and want this to work you must trust him because without trust there is no way you can have a good relationship and then have you been thinking that by Begin so jealous you are pushing him away i hope you get it together or you might lose him.

Answer 4

It's not necessarily jealousy; it could be suspicion and maybe there is a  good reason for it! If he seem untrustworthy, then let him go. If it's just your insecurity (because he is good-looking and bi), then you need to work on yourself. You will drive all partners away if you are jealous and suspicious for no reason.

Answer 5

You are g*y...you are suppose to be confused...But seriously...it seems like you need to give each other time to work it out...its obvious both of you like each other but have certain uncertainties...it takes time so be patient and don't be too tough on him or yourself!!

Answer 6

move on.. on/off relationships never end up working..

the sooner you move on the better things will be and you both will prevent getting emotionally hurt :)