Can someone help me with my life?

Question

okay well school is about to start again but lately ive been feeling pretty lonely..

my 2 best friends are both on the cheer squad while i play vollleyball so of course they have more hang out time together, but they don't even call me anymore...

like when i saw them yesterday at our school's "Welcome Back Fair" after their dance i ran up to them all excited like good job guys! and my friend Kara was like thanks but the other one Molly just ignores me now

really like she ignores me i haven't even done anything :( these are my only 2 best friends everyone now im all alone what do i do?

Answer 1

Sorry to hear that - everyone can relate to feeling lonely.

It looks like your only choice is going to be to put yourself out there and make some new friends.

Teenage girls are very peculiar and vicious creatures (I speak from experience). Those girls were never really your friends to begin with. Do you simply want to be a friend of convenience?

Prove to them that YOU don't need THEM!!!! There's probably nothing more they'd enjoy than to know you're sad and living in the past while they are moving forward without you.

Get out there this school year (start early while everything is new & fresh) and start talking to people - sure, you might get rejected a few times as not everyone 'clicks' as friends, but eventually you will end up with some good people that you like.

Easier said than done, but what choice do you have if you want to move forward?

Best of luck to you!!!!

Just think - 10 years from now, none of this will even matter to you.

Answer 2

well this happened to me

my advice is if you really love them try to get them back. But if you don't, do not kiss their butts! And find a new best friend. I did all 3 and my new best friend is the bestest best friend i ever had :) but then my and my other friends became friends again :)