Can someone help me with this? (im really new at this)?

Question

i just married this guy who has 11 kids. and i really wanted to be with him because i was an only child growing up and i really wanted to be a part of a big family. but that's not the reason i married him. i mean its a huge responsibility for me with cooking cleaning and shopping and i need some help to start off. so what do i need to do to be a good mother to all these kids? thanks so much

Answer 1

You need to make a schedule so they all have chores!!!   This not only shows them their a family, it shows them they all have responsibilities.

Try not to favor any of them, but you will.    Try and not force yourself on any of them who aren't as welcoming.

Answer 2

Just do what you are doing now, take care of them. You obviously knew what a big responsibility you'd be taking on before you married him. If you're happy with it, live your life. :)

Answer 3

i had the same problem, just make them do choors around the house so that u wont have to do all the work