Can someone interpret this dream please.?

Question

Well I've been struggling with issues about my girlfriend and her ex, and also this guy she hangs out with. This has been a continueing issue with me for a while now. I fell like honestly as of yesterday I put the friend being more than a frienmd behind me yesterday. And he ex bf thing behind me a few weeks ago. Well last night I had a dream that her ex was over and he had secretely show her his (thing) and then she said and its okay nbaby, cause what I got now is alot better. what does that mean. And then after that one I dreamed the guy actually called me on the phone and told me personally nothing was going on between them. can someone interpret this please?

Answer 1

Well it sounds like you are trying to accept and come to grips over the ex and the guy she hangs out with, It's evident that this bothers you and you may possibly deep down feel that something is going on or that you want to be the only guy in her life. So maybe you should bring this to her attention and let her know what you are bothered by so she can either reassure you that everything is fine and that there is nothing to worry about or the opposite. But, either way it comes down to a trust issue. I never understood why people get into relationships with so much drama going on. If she wants to be with you she needs to let go of these other guys in her life. Don't get me wrong she can have guy friends as long as it is only a friend relationship. You shouldn't have to struggle with issues like this. The solution maybe to separate and find someone else where you don't have all of the drama taking place.

Answer 2

First I want to start out by saying I am not a dream interpretation expert but that will in no way stop me from trying my best to interpret your dream.

The fact that your girlfriend said she had something better now when she saw his "thing" could mean a few things. There is the literal sense in which it could mean that you're better endowed than he is and then there is the symbolic sense. A man's endowment symbolizes things such as s*x and how he perceives himself as a man. Since your girlfriend said she is better off now it could mean that the guy she was with before was only someone who she had casual s*x with or was only intimate with and nothing deeper and by saying she is better off now can mean that with you she is having a mature/grown up relationship, not one solely based on s*x. It is also possibly that you subconsciously think you're a bigger man than he is, not in the sense of the size of your endowment but in the sense of being there for your partner, treating her appropriately, being romantic etc.

In your other dream when the guy calls you it means that you want to talk to this guy and figure out what's really happening. The fact that he admits that nothing happened may mean that you can trust your girlfriend, that you don't need to worry about her cheating on you.

Well that was my interpretation and I hope I helped in any way at all. Also, I recommend you get together with your girlfriend for a serious talk, in person, and maybe tell her what you've been dreaming of and then possibly ask her if she's been seeing other guys while with you. It might be hard but its important for her to know what's going on with you. Lastly, you might want to go talk to the ex and the guy friend and ask point blank what, if anything, is going on.

Answer 3

you are trying to rationalize your thoughts..you want o trust her but you are still not sure of yourself....let it go if she does leave you it will hurt but it will be a sign for you to move on their are more fish in the sea...appreciate your relationship and put your full self into it..she will want what is good