Can someone please adopt me.i need help and fast.?

Question

im 15 i live in michigan even though i love my mother and family alot i just dont want to live hear any more my mom lost her job in 2001 every since then we've been d**n near homeless. i dont have no room at all but i keep my clothes and shoes in the computer room at my sister house .Where i now stay i have to sleep on the hard wood floor everynight but sometimes i sleep on the couch and it very bad for my back my moms acts like shes so helpless and useful at times i just want to disrespect her and dont care what she think, she recently got 30 thousand from my granddads passing and in january she didnt buy us any bed to sleep in and she just spent 4,000 to get out of jail and 4,000 for a lawyer and brought my sister a 400 dollar crib for a baby but claims she doesnt have any money so please some one help my im depressed stressed and way to young for the agervation so someone please help me out and i tell her all the time that im depressed and she reply me to. and it way more than this.

Answer 1

first of all...i can see you are leaving in a bad condition....but if you really loved your family you'll know that you should stay by there side through tough times...and if your older than 14 you should get a part-time job to help your mom out!

Answer 2

You must be very bright because you are resourceful enough to come on to the internet to help solve your problem. You deserve much more than you have right now. It must be VERY tough not having a car to be able to get to a job and earn money and get out of your situation! Since you love your family, it might be a good idea to surprise your family by reaching out and finding help.  This is a better solution because as much as I'd like to make your life better by adopting you, I am not allowed because your mother would have to relinquish (give up) her parental rights to you first. She loves you too much to do that I bet. So you need to call [phone] and tell the Child and Family Services that you are are a grown teenager and you do not have a bed. Then you could be placed in a nice place with other kids your age without a nice place to live. They will feed you well and give you a comfortable place to stay and help you applying for colleges when you finish high school and look for scholarships. There is a place called Gwin's Garden Gate for neglected teenage girls in Michigan. Life will get better. I am so glad you are on the path to a better life.

Answer 3

You need to get ahold of social services in your area. The only way you could get adopted without your mom's consent is to get yourself into the foster care system and then either get adopted by your foster parents or have a homestudied family like ours adopt you. You can email me if you want.

Answer 4

PLEASE talk to your school counselor or your minister about your situation.  However, the best you can probably expect in the way of "getting out"  is to be put into a foster home.   Your mom sounds as if she needs help, too.

However, you DO have a roof over your head, comfortable or not. You DO have shoes and clothes.  You DO have food to eat.   And, next year, you WILL be able to work after school at a grocery store or somewhere else and you can keep your own money.    Perhaps you could find some odd jobs now (even if it's doing yard work or babysitting for your teachers) that would allow you to buy an inflatable mattress and pump.  

You are very young but you are going to have to take it on for yourself.  If you allow yourself to become a victim, then you will be one just like your mom.

Answer 5

I know dear! Believe me I have raised six children dirt poor..Stand by your mother, she needs to know at least she has her daughter who loves her..,,Get a job, have dreams, don't run off all crazy because your so poor..If your a survivor and have determination, and please don't forget the power of pray, believe me it works..When you think you have it hard, never forget there is someone who has it harder..Go to

the people who would be willing to help you and your mother..Running away from problems will not solve anything..Face up to each problem, everyday takes care of itself..

Answer 6

u cant be adopted w/out ur moms say and just go to a teen crises center if it taht bad then the state will take u away witch could be just as bad if u live like in new york or something p.s im realy srry for u i know whats its like to be homeless and adopted and in the system so please think about this i have a feeling this was written just out of anger so calim down and THINK!!

Answer 7

Is this a joke?  If so, please realize that this is not funny.

If you are serious, then you should contact a crisis center.  They can help you out with counseling if that is what you need, and some even have resources that might help your mom get a new job.  

It sounds like your mom bought the crib for your sister because that is what she needed.  It is important that a baby has a proper crib to sleep in to prevent problems later in life.

Answer 8

wow this is not a smart question to put on yahoo someone will say ok ill adopt you and then they take u home and murder u. if this is a joke question this is stupid ther are people actually like this.

Answer 9

Check your local phone book for "Teens in Crisis" or call information. The operator will be able to assist you. Also, search on the internet for the same topic. I have included a website listed below:

Answer 10

I think you need to talk to social services or whatever its called out in the states. i live  in canada so im not sure. talk to a councellor someone im sure can help you. But please dont' end up in foster care or run away or anything there are places or shelters taht you can go to. good luck with everything. If i lived there i would help you out . I adopted my son when he was a baby his mom was a drunk. take care

Answer 11

I'm really sorry and i can't say i know how you feel...but i understand. yahoo answers really isn't the best place to go tho. if i were you i would go to your local police station even and just say that you need help and don't know what to do. or you could go to your counselor at your school but who knows if that would be any good. i wish you nothing but good luck and i hope everything works out.