Can someone please analyse my boyfriends message?

Question

hey says:

i love you lots and lots, you are the best girlfriend and will be the best wife when we get married hehe xoxo goodnight

im 19 he is 21 and yea we're serious, been together for just over a year. but i mean, would you say he's just making a bit of a joke? we've lightly spoken of marraige but you know, we're so young.....what do you think?? is he ready to settle down? please dont lecture on young marraiges coz its not like that message was a proposal or anything...just seeing what you guys think i should make of the message....thanks :)

Answer 1

I don't think he means that he wants to get married right now.

I guess he just loves you so much that he already visions your life together. I say, this guy really wants to marry you and he's saying it right now. He wants you to know that he loves you so much that he's saying that he will marry you.

Don't be scared or anything. He won't propose yet. :)

Answer 2

haha. i'll try not to give you a lecture. i'm younger than you are. but i would say to just joke back. call him your hubby or something if he likes the cutsy stuff (it personally makes me want to puke, but it looks like he was writing pretty cutsy, so go for it)

oh, and this is not a lecture, just something i find interesting:

the front part of your brain does not completely finish growing until you are about 23 or 24. so thats why couples who marry under that age usually get a divorce.

but seriously, don't worry about it. looks like he's joking, and if you do want to get married young, there are some couples who make it.

just try to think about it alot.

Answer 3

I just finished analyzing your message in my bat-computer and it old me that your boyfriend is joking...thou,he has considered or imagined how would be the life by your side...i think he loves you so much and he has thought so,but i am sure he is not going to propose to you in the next months or days....be happy and enjoy him!

Answer 4

as a psychologist it seems to me that he is treating your relationship as a joke.to put hehe in after such a statement about marriage means he does not see the relationship lasting,i think he could be there for the s*x.best thing would be to get pregnant and then you will have snared him.as for the xoxo,he could just have been playing noughts and crosses by mistake.i also think he may have more than one girlfriend,hence the reason for saying you are the best one.

Answer 5

hmm i think hes jking as he follows it with hehe. and i think the text is to show how much he loves you

Answer 6

it sounds to me like he is serious. i think he wrote it in a form of a joke just to see how you would react. if you say "what marriage" he might just be like oh i was just joking. but if you respond back says "and i know you will be a great husband" then he will most likely start talking to you more about marriage and becoming alot more serious.