The reason I ask is because I am trying my hardest to figure out if my sister in law just has a close bond with twin brother (my husband) or if she's just mental. I am close with my brother, but not to the point that I'd say horrible things about his girlfriend to make myself feel better. Basically here's the deal: My husband and I have been together for 3 years. I got along great with his sister in the beginning. A year into our relationship, we found out I was pregnant. Things are still going good, his sister is totally thrilled to be an aunt. Well, because I was pregnant and couldn't go "party" anymore, my husband (then boyfriend) took it upon himself to stay home with me every night. It was completely his choice, I never forced him to. That's when things started going downhill. His sister would be nice to my face, but then I'd find out she'd be saying things about me to some mutual friends of ours-about how I have her brother locked up in the house and I wouldn't let him do anything. Then we got married when I was 7 months along. Shortly after I had the baby, we decided to move to another state to be close to my family. I had always mentioned to my husband that I'd like to move...SOMEDAY. But it was HIS idea to go when we did. So then his sister started saying "oh she made him move, she threatened to leave him and never let him see their daughter if he didn't." So now that we've been living in this new state for almost a year, I get a phone call from one of my good friends back home frantically asking if i'm ok. I say "of course I'm ok, why do you ask?" she says "well your sister in law is telling everyone that you're dying of cancer." This is when sh*t hit the fan and I had enough. I have bit my tongue for 3 years and I simply can't do it anymore. I was sick back in March, they did tests to RULE OUT cancer, all my tests came back normal, it turns out it was a virus. So #1, I'm upset she was spreading my business to begin with. But #2, she completely exaggerated and fabricated a lie. And I don't know about you, but I would never say such a horrible thing about someone that wasn't true. What is your take on this? Is she just having a hard time with her brother growing up and having a family? Or is she just a nut?? I apologize for this being so long, btw!
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