Can someone please help me, im abuot to give up on love altogether?

Question

so abuot a month ago broke up with my girlfriend that i dated for about a year. mostly because i moved away and i was never going to see her, and i knew that she would not be happy having a long distance relationship. i didn't want to constrict her to just me, cuz i dont think it would be very fair to her to excpect her to stay faithfull to someone she would never see. we also both decided that we would stay as good of friends as possible, which i really do want. but within the last few weeks, we havent been getting along, and we seem to fight on the phone over pointless things. also, one of her friends called me and told me that my ex told her to call me and tell me how bad of a person i am and how i shuoldnt call anymore, which sounds like something a third grader would do which is why i just couldnt see my ex doing that because i was pretty sure that even tho we fought, we still cared about each other. anyway, i still really love her a lot and i dont think she knows it. she talks abuot all these guys that she talks too now that im gone, and i guess thats what "friends" do, they gossip or wutever, but it just makes me sad. i mean i want her to be happy but i want her to be with me still. i guess i cant have both. can someone please tell me wut to do? id really appreciate all the advice and thank you to any one and everyone who answers.

Answer 1

First you have got to be sure that she likes you and she is interested in you.You said that you have not given her any clear signs about your feelings to her.Tell her that you still love her.Set up a meeting with her face to face not on the phone.Go at a place where both of you can spend some time and can talk about your relationship.Tell her that you both can have the same relationship as before,and if you have done something to make her unhappy,do apologise for that action.

Another important point here is that get out of the friends zone,you can have many friends but do not make a friend relationship with a girl who you love.You can have many friends but be sure that you have only one girlfriend with whom you can have sincere and good relationship.