Can someone tell me what my compatibility chart says?

Question

I wasn't able to link the actual natal chart but does anyone understand this.

4/11/1983) Me

Sun - Aries - 21.46

Moon - Aries - 8.29

Mercury - Taurus - 8.15

Venus - Taurus - 28.33

Mars - Taurus - 4.56

Jupiter - Sagittarius - 10.34 R

Saturn - Scorpio - 1.51 R

Uranus - Sagittarius - 8.46 R

Neptune - Sagittarius - 29.13 R

Pluto - Libra - 28.20 R

Lilith - Aquarius - 2.52

Asc node - Gemini - 27.28

(12/6/1984) My boyfriend

Sun - Sagittarius - 14.24

Moon - Taurus - 20.00

Mercury - Capricorn - 0.38 R

Venus - Capricorn - 26.42

Mars - Aquarius - 15.33

Jupiter - Capricorn - 15.42

Saturn - Scorpio - 22.02

Uranus - Sagittarius - 13.50

Neptune - Capricorn - 0.32

Pluto - Scorpio - 3.40

Lilith - Aries - 10.10

Asc - Taurus - 27.26

Me to Him

Venus Trine Venus 1.51 92

Mars Opposition Pluto 1.17 -54

Jupiter Conjuction Sun 3.50 141

Jupiter Conjunction Uranus 3.16 77

Saturn Sextile Mercury 1.13 67

Saturn Sextile Neptune 1.18 40

Saturn Conjunction Pluto 1.49 77

Neptune Conjunction Mercury 1.25 114

Neptune Conjunction Neptune 1.20 77

Pluto Square Venus 1.38 -83

685 -137 548

Answer 1

Without actually looking directly at the chart, I can't give anything too detailed. I will give it my best shot at a general read! I will tell you about Venus and Mars in your charts. (Venus is what you look for in a man's chart to see what kind of woman he is attracted to; Mars is where you look in a woman's chart to find who she is attracted to.)

Your Venus aspects trine and this is a great on the surface. You find each other attractive. Thing is, his Venus is in Capricorn and you are an Aries. Aries females are brash and expressive and need direct contact. (If you don't look an Aries in the eye, they will assume you are lying and they hate liars.) He is attracted (atleast mentally) to women who are very feminine. Who are kind of coy. Capricorn women don't tend to be brash with people they don't know. And if you don't look them in the eye, they assume you are embarrassed about something. Cap women are great at giving the benefit of that doubt, Aries women aren't! LOL if you disapoint them once, they will assume you will do it again. His sun is in Sag, so he will be attracted to your spontenaity, but he will want you to be very mothering to him and cry when he cries, like a cap, but aries women don't usually cry when you cry. They tell you to stop whining and do something about the problem. So, emotionally, in a relationship you may be a little overwhelming for him at first.

Your mars is in Taurus, which means you look for a guy who like to play cat an mouse. You chase him, he runs, you don't speak for two weeks, he calls you, you chase, he runs... you don't speak for two weeks.... Sag men (which is the guys sun here) aren't like that. When they get chased, they stop and wait to get caught! They love the fire and passion of a relationship and they see all their friends as their family and connect easily. Aries women perfer to get to know a guy before they commit and Taurus men are the same, so this is what attracts you. You would find Sag as too clingy. However, his moon is in Taurus, which means he fights with himself and tries to hold back his feelings, but usually the Sag in him will just spill it! LOL Your moon is in Aries and you hate whiners. So, the emotional connection way take some time to cement.

I think it should and could work, but I think you will probably need to be the one to do all the heavy lifting emotionally. Try to be a little warmer when he tells you he hurts...

Good luck