Can someone tell me whats wrong with me?

Question

I never want to get out of bed or do anything. Sometimes I sit under the sheets and cry about my life and everything that failed or went wrong. I cant really see the point in getting out of bed and doing something. I feel like my whole life goes nowhere. I dont even have a driving lisense or a car. If i could get my lisense i wouldnt be able to afford a car since i paid 5 grand on braces when i was 19. I dont like taking the bus cause some guy tried lifting up my skirt on the bus and another guy accidently fell on me. I didnt mean to get braces but my teeth were really bad and i was tourmented everyday in school for having buck teeth. Im 21 now and have a 5 year old. The teacher complains that he doesnt listen in school sometimes. Nobody helps me out so i watch him by myself. I dont drink, have friends, or party and even if i wanted to i wouldnt do it because i just dont see the point in having any fun with life. I seem to not be able to make friends. Nobody really talks to me in school and i feel left out and alone all the time. Some guys tell me nobody likes me so i guess i accepted that i wont ever have any friends or a boyfriend. I used to have a boyfriend but he dumped me after s*x. I also went out with someone at 17 but after sleeping with him he told me his real age was 37 and some other guy always used me for s*x when i was 18 and he was 29 and is now married to some girl with fake b***s so now i dont even try with any guys and i feel soo crappy all the time and wish i could find someone but i dont try to do anything about it, all i did was accept the fact that no guy really truly likes me and i dont even date or talk to any guys because of everything that happened. Normally guys just reject me if they find out i have a son so i just let them know that i do have one so i dont have to deal with the agony of getting hurt emotionally, i much rather just get rejected

Answer 1

Goodness, when it rains, it pours. I highly suggest you go to counceling to really let you vent and figure out your problems. Since money seems to be an issue, check through the school regarding their free programs that they offer. You can either have private sessions or group sessions with a coucelor.

I know things are tough but if you let them overwhelm you and control you, you naturally will give out a negative "aura" and sometimes, without thinking, may come across to others as negative, miserable and not fun to hang around. I'm sure that this isn't the case. Just start small and take the steps to see a councelor. Good luck to you and I remember that there is always a silver lining in a cloud. Take care!

Answer 2

Nothing's wrong with u, u've just been hurt & taken advantage of once too many........Remember this:u make ur own destiny.........ur stronger & smarter than u think, don't let any1 put u down, & no matter what's happened to u in the past......just benefit from ur experience, trust urself,& allow urself to make ur life better. The greatest barrier u'll ever have to overcome is ur own reluctance, so just get up & go for it!

Answer 3

gee is that all,you seems depressed,ok I get that.You need to bring yourself out of that funk your in.And why are you s******g all these guys anyway, Dam do you care about your self.You don't have self worth.Honey your not all that horny for you to be s******g all these men.If you don't give a dam about yourself,how do you expect anybody else to.Think about your kid,start making a better life for him and you too.If you don't care,who is. WAKE UP LADY!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Answer 4

i really wanna tell u that everythin will be ok, just let time pass but its not that easy.

u say that u think no one likes u but did u ever think that that guy on the bus liked u?? maybe for the wrong reasons but he did like u

and as for the driving, i say stick to bus/train, its easier and cheaper! and i know u dont like the bus coz of those 2 guys but trust me, that wouldnt happen everytime! and u really should learn to trust more people.

take ur son to the park and play with him, enjoy the time u have with him and dont look back into the past, look towards the future but first do somethin that u can look forward to and stop feelin sorry for urself! i would actually thats the first step and go out more and find ways to meet people. im not sayin its gonna be easy and it wont but its a start!

oh yeah and SMILE =D

Answer 5

It sounds like you are quite depressed, but being depressed from time to time is part of life.  There are lots of people in your situation too, so you are not totally alone (single mothers).  Life can be tough.  I don't think there is particularly anything wrong with you, but it's impossible to really know it by reading one paragraph about you, so how about getting some counseling?

Answer 6

do some thing with your life get a job and make your life amazing go travel the world. if you don't just go see a chyopractor!

Answer 7

Try to get involved with some women's organization.  Whether it turns you into a raving feminist or L*****n doesn't matter.  You just need something to get your motor started.

Answer 8

I've already answered this question.  

Answer 9

It sounds like youre depressed. I'd go see a shrink if I were you. See about meds. Meds help alot.