Can someone walk me thru getting this mp3 player...

Question

Iam a senior citizen and received this delstar ds1700 series mps player and duh!......I got a cd with drivers but the book said if I had xp which I do, I dont need too use it so I plugged in the cord to the computer and the mp3 player and up popped a musicmatch screen which it said closed and led me to yahoo, who also are closed.........wow...am tired already!......then opened a empty file ..........thats where Iam........what site would I go to so I can download some songs or how can I download songs off of my own cds?............help!..thanks!