Can speak, but prefers to not.?

Question

Alright, so, let's start with this: I'm an introvert. When I go to work, McDonald's, I don't really speak at all. I just prefer not to... when I talk, I usually end up saying something I don't mean, just because I feel like I need to fill the silence. And I hate small talk.

Everyone at my workplace talks a lot, it is your average social environment, and I feel like I stick out like a sore thumb. I could get a different job, but I get paid very well here and I like my boss.

People are usually understanding and respect my silence, but others just watch me nervously.

What is the big deal about not speaking?! It angers me that I can't just go about my way and have it be okay with people. It's not that I'm too quiet WHEN I speak. Everyone can understand me.

Let's put it this way.. Silent Bob is my hero. I wish people would accept me the way everyone else accepts him.

Answer 1

maybe because they dont know alot about u

Answer 2

I think that if you just smile it would change their minds.

Answer 3

Introvert!! Id say a nasty self thinking brat who likes to point out everyone failings but wont look at your own....but if thats the way you want others to see you as, fine.

Answer 4

You don't need to speak a lot but frequent occasional speaking would reassure others that you are not just silently judging them / brooding / plotting to blow the McDonalds up.

People use small talk even when it's awkward, because oral communication is a means of building community. Speech has always allowed people to tell stories, exchange information about themselves, and share thoughts. It literally means opening up (you mouth, that is!).

No one can live in verbal isolation.

Answer 5

People should be more accepting, but unfortunately that's not the case.  People sometimes interpret silence as being antisocial and/or arrogant.  Just ignore people who can't accept you for who you are.  Keep your chin up and Good Luck!

Answer 6

I had the same problem at my workplace, but because i didn't talk I guess they thought I was hiding something because the boss and coworkers kept asking me very personal questions that they didn't ask each other about. I happily don't work there anymore, I got a better job that paid more and my privacy was respected.

Answer 7

Just respond nonverbally. Nod, smile, wave, salute. Mainly people want a response. Mumbling works in a lot of cases; it draws people out.

Answer 8

what you feel is the frustration of people not respecting your true identity.  Although I personally feel that socializing and being an extrovert helps tremendously, its every person's personal choice and nature to adopt a behavior.  Anyways, I think you should just not mind the people who dont get you.  Also, if you think thats troubling you too much, just talk to them in person about it and I'm sure they will respect your feelings.

Answer 9

Become a mime