Can the lack of fire in your chart?

Question

Make you boring and predictable?

My boyfriend is a Gemini and i swear sometimes he bores the $hit out of me.. He's so predictable and nags about the same stuff over and over again.. But he has absolutely no fire in his chart. Do you think that is why?

Answer 1

the geminis I know have never been boring. sometimes they can talk too much for a certain amount of time and it gets to a point where you don't really want to listen to them anymore.

Answer 2

its not just the lack of fire, it could be other factors such as if the planets are in bad aspects with eachother . . .

if you post all his details of his planets, it'll be easier to tell . . .

i only have 1 fire and thats jupiter in leo, and i've been told i am very uinpredictable and outgoing, and to be honest i get bored verry easily and love to be moving and doing things that keep me occupied . . . i think its because of the aspects in my chart, that make me this way . . .

my bf is gemini, with virgo moon, taurus mercury, cancer venus and mars and capricorn ascendant, and trrusst me he is the most fun person ever, always wants to do different things, and has me up in stitches from making laugh soo hard, if your out with him, your bound to have fun, he definitely is the entertainer and knows when to be fun, and when not to . . . he just lives life to the fullest, but still has his eyes on the future and a stable life and career . . .

oh and i agree with aspicco aswell  . . .

Answer 3

Gemini? Boring? Well that's odd...

I wouldn't assign it to something as simplistic as a lack of fire. Is his Sun adversely aspected by Saturn? What sign is his Mars in? What aspects does Mars make to other planets? What houses are his Mars & his Sun in?

Don't jump to conclusions about his chart... but if he bores you, get out now. Never mind what the astrological implications are. Trust your heart. You're not happy. Leave.

Answer 4

Gemini? Boring? Well that's an oxymoron! geminis can usually be some of the most fun, exciting, energetic, spontaneous people you could ever meet. Perhaps he's on the Taurus or Cancer cusp, two very mellow signs. Or, he could have  alot of earth or water in him. Something must be offsetting his Gemini quick silver behaivor.

Answer 5

Fire gives you clear direction in life and a sense of boldness and daring. It is air which really makes a person less boring and more quick-witted and fun loving. Earth contributed conservative-ness and practicality. And Water brings emotional sensitivity, home-body-ness, and naggyness (along with beauty, health and mystic power).

So probably his "airs" are affected by a dreadfully serious and boring / pattern-oriented Saturn. Probably his Mercury (ruler of Gemini) is strongly affected by this Saturn, or is in a particularly boring house.