Can this be a pych issue???

Question

im freaking out....

my boyfriend just told me he does not have fun...like when he goes out with friends or what not he enjoys seeing them happy and enjoying themselfs but him himself does not really have fun doing anything. He does not have a passion for anything. That he does not know how to just let loose and relax that he is always thinking of a million things at once. And that he feels he has to be the one in control when ever he is out with people. Im really worried...because i am someone who loves to go out and have fun and enjoy life to the fullest and let loose.I don't want to be the only one haveing fun when we go out.....what do you think this all means?? Im scared i really think this is the guy for me but this...could be a huge problem

Answer 1

You've just descibed the symptoms of depression perfectly. Get him to go to the dr about it & try some medication or see a psychologist.

Answer 2

It sounds more like a personality thing than a psychological issue.