Can u help me i need it . . .

Question

ok i'm going to sound very selfcentered but my life's a mess right now, my mother is ill and falling for my fathers tricks again (the usual o i'l change i love u so much c**p) my supposed best frend ditched me, i'v fallen in lov with a guy 5 years older than me hu i'v never met (yup i am screwed on that subject dont need to be told) i'm under a lot of stress, my mental healths not good and to top it off school starts in a few weeks so i'v got bulying and more stress to look forward to, o and i'v completely forgotten hu i am (i meen my personality) and i hav a tendancy to be mean and s****. to guys but i'm not really lyk that

see what i mean by mess? so can ny1 help me and please dont say anything mean, if u think i'm a n attention seeking emo i dont need to know

Answer 1

Hola!

I know exactly what you are going through.

My father is very mentally ill and it also drives my mother crazy with stress looking after him, he has gotten progressively worse and it has turned my mother bitter and uncaring through the amount of mental torture she has been put through.

Through all this I remain alone to dwell on whatever I like in the seclusion of my bedroom while my parents argue viciously with a lot of swearing.

My best friend also left me recently, we were inseperable for 5 years then he left and didn't come back so I am left with nobody to distract me from all this.

It has affected me mentally in the most negative way. I just sit most of the day in a mindless stupor because it is too stressful to think about(I even get heart palpataions due to stress). I also have lost me personality.

Strangely I can also be cold and arrogant towards other people because I have become so defensive and suspicious of others.

I also have bullying and seclusion to look forward to when I go back to school, its simply h**l!

I unfortunately cannot relate to your love issue. :) I am sure you will sort it out.

There is nothing I can do to help you except for sharing my story with you! "A problem shared is a problem halved" says the stupid cleche!1

Stay positive, it is always going to get better, that is why I don't kill myself because I refuse to give in to the misery and stress becaue it will get better!!

Good luck, i'll think of you when times get hard and I'll be fighting the misery and I hope you will too. Adios amiga!

Answer 2

I think that when a guy talks to you, you should talk back and try not to be mean, maybe you could find a guy that will ground you.

Life is completely screwed anyway, you should try to find the positive things.

I'm mean to guys too, i have an inane crush on Jared Leto, my brother's in prison, my dad is dying, my sister's a heroin addict. After dealing with this for 2 years i've realized that love is the way, whether you end up completely in love with yourself or another person, or with painting stuff or cookies or something... Anything.

Answer 3

Try to maybe change this year. Maybe, you can make a really good couple of friends, and try to hang out with them a lot. That way, youll have something to do, you can be away from home, and you can always have someone to talk to.

Answer 4

If I were you I would start all over again by having a complete fresh start in your head. Throw everything out of it, every distressing situation that is in front of you.

Then, focus on some just you for you time. Like pampering, time out to recharge - read a book, go to a  park & look at nature - anything that will give your mind a rest and a break.

When your batteries are recharged then try to focus on 1 issue at a time and decide how you plan to deal with it. Then deal with it.

That will be 1 off your list done. Keep working down your list until you have everything sorted in your mind.

I do hope you find something in this to help.

Best wishes to you from me UK

Answer 5

try not to worry about your parents. things will work out. for your best friend, they werent good enough for you and you can find another best friend who will never ditch you and make you happy. with the boy..hmm maybe try meeting him in person and go from there. relax. and dont let people get to you. im sure you are a really nice girl who doesnt deserve all of this, but everyone goes through the rough times so stay strong (: