Can u justify the statement?

Question

A good friend of mine asked me one day "What if I broke your trust someday.........."

I just replied "Trusting you was my decision and proving me right is your choice."

Answer 1

High degrees of trust must be engendered over time.  Those who are trusted thusly are actually the ones who create the feeling in those around them, not the other way around.

Answer 2

I sorta like this statement, but then again, a true friend wouldn't have to be proven anything....... all of us have flaws, that is where forgiveness comes in.

Answer 3

Dear Sitara,

                     I justify Your statement by saying, " Trusting You was my decision and Proving it is my Right too"

Answer 4

It simply means...You put your trust in this person; That was your decision. If they break that trust with you; Is there right because they can do it; You gave it to them. Basically, you shouldn't EVER put all your trust in anyone.

Answer 5

I like your statement, personally.  I think it says exactly what we all would want in that situation.

Trust is a really a hard thing to gain from people.  Especially those who have been hurt and betrayed in this world.  They always proceed with caution.  Trust is like quick silver, it may be in the palm of your hand, but can slip away very easily.  And once trust is broken between two people, it is hard to rebuild.  

There are many situations that trust comes into play. But as an example, relationships - when someone is caught cheating.  The cheatee is already hurt and in pain by the actions, and now the cheater comes around and is crying and begging for forgiveness.  Getting trust back takes more than just forgiving someone.  The cheater, if they want the relationship to continue and last, needs to pull out all the stops and don't let their partner have a single doubt.  But in general, when there is no trust, this is where an infinite amount of issues arise.  

I like your statement in that it is up to each person to prove and provide assurance that they are 100% committed to this relationship ( if we are talking about relationships ).  It cannot be a given, and each person does have to work and put a little energy and effort into maintaining that trust.

Thanks for reading!

Answer 6

yr answer is very fine and you have allready told her to act like that, if u didnt added that i would have told you that you allready no space for my views.

Answer 7

i wouldn't trust a friend that would ask such a question because that means that they are at least thinking about betraying that trust.

Answer 8

what?

-- your statement is self-explanatory (what needs to be justified?)

Answer 9

Friends are only humans and as such will make mistakes.  It is up to us to decide if the relationship is worth the mistakes our friends make and if we can face our friends after we make our own mistakes. That usually depends on the amount of love the friends share with us.

Answer 10

very smart answer

u r showing her that u r her true friend and still no one of u can cross the limit

nice answer