Can we be so tough? Or is it just...?

Question

Can we be so tough to be used to hardships, and then it'll be so hard for us to seek out happiness and enjoy it again?!

Or is it just we are so weak?

Answer 1

Yes its like that but not for a smart person who understands the difference.

Answer 2

Yes you have to be tough to be used to hardships.But that does not mean that you will become indifferent to happiness.This is the only weakness you have in mind.There is no other way.

Answer 3

I have come across people who have really faced VERY bad times and hardship, and yet seek and find happiness; and others forever whining and griping when their life gets just a little tough - this lot can never be happy themselves, nor allow others around them to be happy. I just feel sorry for them and a little angry.

The really tough ones somehow find the inner resources to cope, and don't unload their hardships on every passing stranger - they are worthy of  love and respect.

Answer 4

Sure.  Many people are like that all the time.  You just have to know when the fight is over.

Answer 5

we are put into a position we have to get through the rough somehow.(speaking of hardships) for every person it is different.being tough means, that u do not go and jump off a cliff. happiness is ur inner peace. the funny thing is a very happy person can be the toughest person u ever meet, or the weakest.

finding inner peace after an exeptionally hard time takes alot of work. just like in a garden u have too weed out negative things in order for the positive to flourish. i am not saying that they will be permanantly taken care of but at least u know what to do the next time around and that they might need multiple "weeding out" sessions.

me i'm feeling sick of feeling. sick of being tough and sick of the pursuit of happiness. i do what i can and hope for the best. it is all in way i handle my own. my waters are calm until that splash a rock will make when someone or something throws it. it does change me but, i'm in no hurry to rush over and see what it is because of it.

( depending on the size of the "splash") and after that my waters are calm again.

Answer 6

hard for us to seek out happiness

its a big world, there is always some kind of happiness for every person we just have to be strong enough to discover it

Answer 7

hardship can b divided into two u knoww.mental and physical.actually the mental hardship is wat makes us tougher than physical.

but if u can smile even inur worst hardships thenu r the toughest person!!!

Answer 8

yes, people who are used to hardships are mostly people who are so tough.life is full of trials challenges and hardships .good things makes one happy bad things makes one weak,