Can women really be happy being small chested?

Question

Yea I kno ppl on here say "dont worry about it b/c blah blah blah" but HONESTLY after the age of 19 can you rly be happy being small chested?

It's one of those things american society has made to be the primary focus of women, especially during bathing suit season.

There are two types of women: Those who are blessed, and those who God forgot to bless [lol].

And I know ppl say you have to rely on your other assests but honestly, does anybody pay attention to the other assests? I dont think so, just wondering :)

Answer 1

yes some women are ....most aren't though lol

Answer 2

My b*****s are medium sized (C) and I wish they were smaller. It makes it difficult to find a shirt because I'm a Extra-Small/ Small everywhere except for my chest. I sometimes wear a sports bra just to make my clothing fit/ look.

Answer 3

When I was your age I was self conscious about my less-than-blessed chest too. As you get older you learn to accept yourself the way you are. At 44,  I am content with being small.  You are right, there is too much focus on breast size. Society makes us feel insecure about our bodies. Well, we can't all be perfectly proportioned like the swimsuit models.  There are pros and cons to everything. Yes, it's disappointing when we see something we'd like to wear but can't because we don't have enough to fill it out. And just try going into someplace like Victoria's Secret and find an "A" cup without a sales person having to go dig one out of the back room. I look on the bright side as I get older. While many women my age are starting to sag, I am still perky. When I lay on my back my b*****s don't fall into my armpits, and I can sleep comfortably on my stomach. And just for the record, alot of guys don't like big b*****s. Trust me! One more thing....I work in the operating room and if you could see what I see, you'd be thankful you are small.  It's not pretty...LOL

Answer 4

please repeat after me...

I am more then just my ****. I am more then just my ****.  I am more then just my ****. I am more then just my ****.  I am more then just my ****. I am more then just my ****.  I am more then just my ****. I am more then just my ****.  

Great! keep working on that, and you might become a person.

Answer 5

Even if you become large chested, there is going to be something you're not happy about.

When my b*****s got bigger, my ex just rudely told me to lose 15 lbs (I'm a healthy weight, mind you)..When I was 15 lbs skinnier, I had a small chest but was also told that I was too skinny.  

If it makes you feel better, a lot of guys like a nice butt over big ****.

Answer 6

Large b*****s can make a woman look heavier and it's difficult to find tops that fit properly. There's not much that's more annoying to find a shirt that fits perfectly everywhere but across the chest and you can't get it closed there or the buttons keep popping back open.

Answer 7

well judging by all the boob jobs I would have to say no. However, b***s are great but a nice *** is even more important so stop worrying.

Answer 8

Most men would choose larger b*****s over smaller ones. I'm not talking about F's but men like b*****s, there is no arguing that.(assuming the person is a normal weight) I doubt the previous answers claiming men prefer B's...sorry but let's be honest.

However, some men are butt guys, and focus more on big butts, some are face guys, who care more about a pretty face. So when it comes down to it, b*****s aren't the only thing men care about , it's only one asset. And there are some perks to being small chested as others have mentioned, so I don't think there is any connection between chest size and hapiness.

Answer 9

American society also tells us that we're supposed to be riveted by the life minutiae of Jennifer Lopez and Brad Pitt.

Doesn't mean it has to be your primary focus.

Ironically, many women who have large b*****s want smaller ones. You'll be glad of your small ones when you hit 40 and they are still perky.

Answer 10

I would give anything to be small chested.  I'm a 36C, and I'd love to be an A cup again (or even have no b*****s at all).  They're frickin annoying.

Answer 11

More than a handful is wasted!

There are several celebrities that are not that large chested. I.e. if you have a lean build it's still attractive, but you will be small chested, otherwise you'd be out of proportion. Plus, most guys are interested in girls as more than just transport systems for b*****s.

Answer 12

I didn't read all of that

the only thing I could think of was that women are FAR FAR FAR MORE obsessed with their b*****s than men are

realize that there are guys who like large, and guys who like small

Answer 13

Plenty women are including in Hollywood.  Kate Hudson's built built like a 12 yr old boy but still popular.  If you accentuate your assets and believe in yourself, others will too.

Answer 14

^  ^  ^

" WHY IS SO MUCH EFFORT PUT FORTH TO STEER WOMEN FROM BEING s*x OBJECTS   - WHEN IT SEEMS APPARENT THIS IS WHERE THEY WANT TO BE"

Answer 15

I imagine they can, unless they have people lecturing on the importance of large bosoms (and the comparative uselessness of a brain and a personality) in their presence.

Answer 16

there is no logical correlation between happiness and chest size.

yes, society has a tremendous focus on women's chest, but we have got to break this strong hold that the media has on our thinking. we have to define ourselves.

Answer 17

I think you are a bit obsessive.  Personally, I prefer smaller b*****s to bigger ones.  I think the female body just looks better without two huge scoops of fat tissue hanging off the chest.

Answer 18

if you need b***s, i can sell ya mine. i hate the darn things, they get in the way, if i had the money i would chop them off! its not the fact that its where men's eyes tend to stray towards, that don't bother me, its just that over the years they tended to droop, ya know that saying do your ears hang low? well, it goes for b***s too.

Answer 19

Yes, I am.  I am a B cup and very happy.  I am actually happier than I was in high school.  I am glad I don't have big b***s.  All my friends with big b***s already sag...and they are roughly my age (25ish) and have not had kids yet.

Looking like this oo, is much sexier than looking like this VV.

Answer 20

Personally I think my breast match with the rest of my body. I am a small b cup with a small body to match. If my b*****s were bigger I wouldn't look right. But thats just my opinion.

Answer 21

Yes, women can be.

Answer 22

Yes, I'm sure they can.  You can be happy with what God gave you.  But I'm so glad he gave me these!