Can you decipher this dream?

Question

I'm praying God will give me somebody to help me understand this. I'm not using real names, So heres the code: The guy I've been in love with for 7 years will be Tom. His Sister will be Joanna, and his Ex g.f. will be Samantha. [We have never dated, but I'm in Love with him.]

The dream:

I was sitting on a bed in his sister's room, just talking, when Tom and his ex [who now dates my ex boyfriend] came in. He sat down beside me, and held my hand. We heard my dad calling from the living room, and I kissed him goodbye, which I have never done before. He pulled away, and I was heartbroken. Later, His sister, joanna, asked if i could stay the night, which i did. I was getting a shower in their walk-in shower, when Tom walked up behind me, and oddly enough, I wasn't embarrassed to be naked in front of him. He apologized for pulling away earlier, and he kissed me. My dad heard our conversation, yet he said he approved of it.

This is probably the longest dream I have ever had.Help!

Answer 1

You are lacking the confidence of yourself. You want him to know you love him by opening up to him not being afraid to show him you are his. Your father approves because in your mind he reminds you of the only man you ever respected..your dad. Toms ex is a girls way of saying to you, go ahead take him, i,m over it. And you sitting in his sisters room tells that you feel comfortable around her knowing that where she is he is.

Answer 2

The dream is about spiritual transformation more than anything else.  Taking a shower, for example, is a cleansing process.  That means letting go of "selfish" behaviors.  The relationship between you and Tom is a metaphor for the spiritual relationship you truly want to develop.