Can you equaly divide your love between your children?

Question

or you love one more that the others?

Answer 1

I don't have children,

but I would think that parents love the first child the most,because it is,after all,their FIRST child.They may tell their children they love them all the same ,but they probably secretly,love the first child the most,because it was their first..

Answer 2

I give all my love to both my children.  And yet, I find my coffers full.

Answer 3

Every child is unique in their own way. You brought them into the world and all you can do for them is to shower your love on them.

It is possible that you might like one for something and another child for another thing, however, don't let that show in the way you treat or interact with them--love them equally.

Answer 4

Love is a wonderful thing, with miraculous qualities.  One of its most wonderful qualities is that there is no limit to the amount of love you can feel or give.  Love does not exist in a finite quantity that you must divide among those you care for; there's always enough to go around wherever it's needed.  I tell each of my kids that I love them a whole heart full, and it's true.  I feel the same way about my spouse and my family.  So, do I have many hearts?  No, just many hearts full of love.  It never diminishes and you'll always have just as much as you want for everyone and everything you want or need to love.  Enjoy it!

Answer 5

I do love both my kids equally. However, I connect with each on a different level. While one is fun in certain areas, the other is a dud in those areas and vice-versa.

The love is always there, but they each have their perks. 8)

Answer 6

Neither.  You love your children.  Loving one does not diminish your love for the other.  To some extent, you must divide your resources like living space, money, and time.  Sometimes it makes sense to devote more resources to one than another.

Answer 7

real love can't be measured or divided....its infinite

Answer 8

i certainly try to . As a parent you experience a different kind of love. You simply give them all your heart without expecting anything in exchange or any award. I think that's the real love!