Can you fall in love like this?

Question

Not romantic, not buying anything for you in any occasion unless you ask, never wait for you and let you follow behind, never like to speak in the public, get angry very easily, never ask if you are hungry. always tell you "no budget" ..

Answer 1

Because you're emotionally blind!? Wake up smell the coffee, get some self esteem.  You're obviously finding fault here so I guess you can't be too blind so the questions are what are you going to do about it or are you just going to accept it?

Answer 2

Its easy to love someone that makes you happy and makes the effort to make life good for you. If there are no redeeming qualities then why bother to try and fall in love with them?

The person that is always positive about us. Always ready with helpful and supportive words based on their knowledge of us. Not afraid to say things we don't want to hear because they know its the right thing...that is the person to love. That's the one that treats you as an equal.

The wife with big cold feet to kick me out of bed in the mornings to get to work and lovely warm arms to pull me back in on the weekend.

Sounds like this person is not thinking much of you. Is that what YOU want?

Answer 3

No and you will be a fool to be in love with someone who have no respect for you at all..Just want to get what they can out of you. Let it go.

Answer 4

don't be fool ,leave that person rigth now,and live u life lol

Answer 5

That's a lot of negative reasons not to love him!  I'd be interested in knowing exactly what it is you DO love about him!

Edit:  When you really love someone, it is very very easy to make an endless list of why you love them.  If you don't know and can't say why you love him, that should be a real wake up call for you!  Whatever it is that draws you to him to be treated as he treats you is definitely not love!

I think you're being manipulated and controlled by this person.