Can you give me some insight?

Question

My ex-girlfriend and I broke up a week ago after about 5 years. We had been living together for 3 of those years... and are still living together...

on of my problems is that we decided to lease an apartment that we could only afford if we both chipped in. The cancellation fee would be too expensive and we are not at the point where we want to get the heck away from each other, so that leaves us both constantly frustrated. We still love each other, but there are too many things that we just can't stand about each other that we can't be together. When I look at the facts, it doesn't look all that great. If I decide to start dating, I can't bring them to my place, I would feel Incredibly awkward if she found out that I was dating, and many women will be turned off at the fact that I am living with my ex-gf. What would you do in this situation?? I am at the point to where I just don't know what to really do. I hate things about her, but I wouldn't want to hurt her. Should I wait or just tell her about it or don't tell her about it? I'm not saying that I am going to go out dating right away, but I would feel a lot less encumbered if I knew that I had the option.

Thanks for your input. :D

Answer 1

The best thing is to tell her all about your situation and ask her to wait until situation will be better.

Why you want to date somebody right away?

Answer 2

Most likely she is feeling the same way you are right now .  So I would openly discuss my thoughts with her and try to get some feedback from her standpoint .  Remember it is a two way street and she may bring a date home to you one night .  Or worse ... you may unexpectantly walk in on her doing the bumpin ugly with romeo ... bad scene .  

The other possibility is sub-lease until you can get out from under it .  Or sometimes discussing extraordinary circumstances with the property mgr will allow the mgr to work with you in finding new occupants .... ?

Answer 3

if this is what u want u shouldnt be asking us. u know the answer. move the h**l out! doesnt matter what she thinks because its inevitable anyway.  

Answer 4

One thing is sure, u love ur d**k than ur life. You are more concerned about the thirsty of ur d**k, why not a discussion on cocktail with her, reach in a formula which is agreeable for both of you. If you live with her favor,you are liable to be descent . Or the last way is to ignore all and do ur things like a hyena...no botheration.