Can you hate your dad??

Question

me and my dad do NOT get along, we've tried to.. But we can't.. He drinks. He does drugs. But when he;s drunk or high, he's... decent to me.. he's kinda nice and such.. But when he's actually sober, he's hit me, he's pulled my hair, he's hit my mom.. All he does is complain about stupid stuff I seriously don't even think I love him anymore..

I know he helped give me life and all, but is it possible to just hate your dad..

Answer 1

i hate mine he is mean and doesnt understand me!!!!!!!!

Answer 2

Of course it is. Your Dad is a living being just like the rest of us. People say "You shouldn't hate your parents, they gave you life." and yada yada. But that doesnt matter if they make it a living h**l. Its like getting a gift from an anonymous person and going to there house to thank them and they turn out to be an a*****e. So s***w them, take the gift, and leave.

  

Answer 3

um you can really no like him but cant hate him think of some nice things he's done and forget the bad and say to yourself that he doesn't matter so do display that you like or don't like him remain neutral and you'll feel better. I do in my problems.

Answer 4

yeah, right. yes it is possible. dont you just REALLY feal like running away sometimes? just forget about EveryythinG! just leave your worries behind in a box or something. try it,

i just cry and cry, i have i diff. situation slightly then you, read the last question i posted. but i just hate life in general right now.

im sorry this is happening to you. and me. live life, thats all you can do.

Answer 5

Well, it is america. You can hate anyone, or anything you want. When my mom drinks, she argues with my step dad alot, slurs, and stumbles. Normal drunk activity. When she's sober, of course she's fine. It's opposite of your situation, but I don't particularly like her when she's like that.