Can you help me i hate the way i think?

Question

I'm scared of everything. i must sound weird but its like everything i do or hear i think stuff in my head like its gonna happen to me. for example: in history we saw a picture of a chinese man having his head being chopped off and people being killed. it made me scared in case i was reincarnated and that happened to me, if you get what i mean. i no its weird i don't know if I'm just a mentalist or something? I'm also constantly scared that I'm ill or that the world could end at any moment and stupid stuff...i also had nightmares every night when i was a kid. I'm only 14 loll but my mum wont take me to the doctors about anything she just thinks I'm a weirdo!

Answer 1

your a little young yet for me to think you should be on meds

but really what else is there

sounds to me like the start of paranoid schizophrenia or maybe just a touch of ocd

Answer 2

I'm not sure what you mean by "hate the way you think" maybe you mean to say "stop being afraid of everything"...  When I was younger, I experienced the same types of thoughts from time to time.  After hearing about AIDS for the first time, I was a little bit paranoid that I would get it as well. When I skipped my period, I would find myself worrying that I was pregnant, even though I was a virgin at the time. I'm not saying that it's healthy or even completely normal to have these sorts of fears, but I would like to encourage you that they often resolve themselves on their own. I'm 23, and I haven't had this problem since I was about 16. If you find that the thoughts are so intrusive into your life that you can't be happy or function, go to see your school psychologist and tell them what's happening. They would be able to talk to your mom, encouraging her to allow you to see a professional. If you have a serious problem, they can help you from there.  

Answer 3

I say seek help...

Answer 4

kiddo, don't be that scared. life will end eventually but it's a part of life. thinking about things makes u human. dwelling is bad on the other hand. try living every moment to the fullest. u are young. u have much to see in this world.

now u can be scared or u can be adventures and try to experience life.

there are so many ppl that dont even get out of their state. what a lost cause. see the world when u are older but still young enough. trust me u will need lots of energy.

don't be blind to things but don't be scared either of what u see. everyone went through something what u are feeling at some point in their early years.

u will just fine. just remember, things will not fall in ur lap. if they do, cool. but u have to work at things and be willing to learn. that fear will deminish.

Answer 5

Take a breath dear, Look around you. How can you think of Death when there's so much life around you? Sure, we are all going to die someday, that's a fact we all just have to accept. For some, we grasp that concept very well and quickly, others....just need time. What I would advise, is write, know why?

If you write, when you die, others will never forget your existence, therefore you will always be alive in people's hearts.

Take my advice for what you will, but don't expect to live forever by being afraid...accept it and it will accept you.

Answer 6

Well Cookie,, Your not weird, just developing in your life..Graphic things,,make lots of people twice your age cringe or get very upset.. What we as individuals are and how we feel inside,is what we are shown and told about the world and ourselves..If your exposed to violence and grusome things,,you can very easily become upset..If you are exposed to pleasant and agreeable things that doesn't happen..Get the point here? You should try to avoid bad and graphic acts and pictures,,and anything that is not pleasant..I know too,,you can't always do that . But when given a choice,,accept the pleasant side.. Remember this,, In your life,,change the things you can,,accept the things you can't ,,and try and learn the difference..If you really try hard, there is plenty of nice and good things to think and see..The bad is only mixed in with the good..YOU pick the good..And don't think about bad things,,just because you CAN. Think about seeing and doing things which you like,,and are fun,,and you would like to try..If you think positive and good thoughts,,you WILL be a positive person..And as far as reincarnation,,no one has ever come back from the dead to tell us anything ,,so don't even think about that !! Period..Read good books and try to find some friend or school mate to enjoy nice and good conversation with.. Everything is built on things that are good and pleasant.. Shoot for that and everything your thinking about will go  away.. I guarantee it !!  Think Good!!   Good Luck !!  SOLOMON

Answer 7

haha. this is funny. lol

ur funny. lol, u should write a book :D

YOU ARE NOT ALONE!

ps: long live COLDPLAY