Can you help me ???????????!?

Question

hey everyone ,i want to talk about my brother and i need you to tell me what we should do ,he is 20 years old,and he destroying our life ,and especially my mom ,today she cried ,he don't know anything about life he can't write very good and he don't know anything about money ,which means he can't work and get a job ,he don't know how to talk with people he have the old person like the child ,which means he doesn't respect the people who deserve to respect and my dad is vip ,and every body talking about him how can that be his son ,and he is the only son,and he is hurting us ,he is like a child and we can't bare this life with him ,we want him to get marry (any girl will accept because my dad as i said vip)but how can we let him marry if he even can't get a job ,and he left the school early ,i need help for my mom and i appreciate any answer . thank you a lot

Answer 1

I think you and your family should cut all ties with him, and let him learn on his own what life is all about! Maybe then he will learn some respect.

Answer 2

Your dad may be a VIP, but he is a poor father.Your dad needs to get his head out of his butt,and see your brother as he is and do something about him.Like make him get some education,and a job.

Answer 3

This is not a problem you should be carrying on your shoulders. This is your parents problem and they should be dealing with it.

I can only suggest that you carry on doing your best to support your Mum through this difficult time. Please try to remember that nothing lasts forever - he will one day leave. Perhaps Dad can be helped to see that the sooner the better for everyone then a normal, peaceful family life can be enjoyed. Best wishes. UK