i have a good friend who's spouse is messing around , when my friend and i are talking about it, i mainly listen. i don't say much but was wondering if there are definite things that i should i NOT say? or should i just be completely honest and tell her what i see, understand and know for a fact?
so far every one is telling my friend to get rid of the spouse and i have said is "when you are tired of it all and ready you will make the right choice for you." i know that this is not comforting to my friend but i don't want to be the one who makes the decision in this situation. am i doing the right thing?
i really feel bad for my friend because i know that my friend is dying inside and hurting over this and i want to help but i am not sure how. besides this is not the first time the spouse has done this to my friend.
suggestions please...and please no smart remarks.
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