Can you help me with a saggitarius male?

Question

I have this co-worker whos a sag. I'm actually starting a new job next week. He is a bit older then me. He has been married before. Anyway, We had one week where all we did was flirt, he always tells me I have a great personality, that i'm fun etc. He is even said that he finds me really attractive. I did some research on sag men and it says they like to play games...I don't LOL. So I backed off, completely. Acted like he didn't even excist. Thats when he started saying "are you mad at me" and of course i acted like i was fine. He said he does want to stay in contact w/ me when I leave. Yesterday he asked me to copy somethin and i said "it will cost you" and he smiled and said i have the best personality, and that im "mischievous" but in a good way. So like is he just playin with me? should I give up? im not gonna gush over him and play his games. If he wants me why won't he just say it?!?!? any advice? are all sag men like this?

Answer 1

It sounds like he is having some innocent fun flirting with the new girl in the office. Dont always assume that just because he is a certain sign that he is going to fall into every single category of his sign.... we are multifaceted humans.

It sounds like he wants you more because you stopped flirting with him. All human contact is control based. When you suddenly stopped the banter, that switched the control into your seat because all his attention is focused on you and your next action. He is wondering if you are mad at him and waiting for your next move.  

If you like him, feel him out - outside of work. Work relationships are hard to keep.

If you get a bad gut feeling, back off completely.

Answer 2

I have some Sag. male friends and this is what I think about the situation....I think that he wants to when he wants you. Then when he is through he will hurt you. My best advice is to forget about him and find another who is worth the time. Good luck. Hope I've helped.

Answer 3

Sounds like your the one playing games.  Tell him your intentions and concerns, be clear about it.  If you don't like his response, then move on.

Answer 4

I think you should move on. Sounds like he is playing games with you

Answer 5

I'll tell you from experience sister:

This guy is playing games. Because it's so early and still innocent, just ignore him. If he really sees you as more than entertainment, then trust me, he will go after you. I've seen this before. Not just because he is a man but because he is a sag as well. Your young, probably beautiful and energetic, who wouldn't want that. Don't be quick to be emotionally invested with a sagittarius. Let him see that he isn't anymore to you than you are to him. DON'T GIVE IN!!!

Good luck!

Answer 6

RUN WHILE YOU CAN.....

THEY ARE CHEATERS, LIARS AND JUST NOT RIGHT..

I WAS MARRIED TO ONE FOR 3 MONTHS BEFORE HE CHEATED AND ME, TOLD THE WOAMN THAT HE WAS DIVORCED, AND MOVED HER INTO A 2 BEDROOM APARTMENT WITH HER AND HER 3 CHILDREN.. WHILE ME AND HIS TWO KIDS ARE STRUGGLING. DID I MENTION THEY LIKE TO HIT? AND THEY NEVER LIKE TO ADMIT IT WHEN THEY'RE WRONG.. THEY PLAY ALOT OF GAMES.. THEY ALWAYS ACT LIKE YOU'RE THE ONE PLAYING GAMES THOUGH.. HE SPENT 6 MONTHS CHASING ME DOWN.. WHEN I FINALLY MARRIED HIM, HE CHEATED, AND LEFT/.. TO ANOTHER WOMAN..